it’s ok to be bigger than your partner🫶🏼

When Brent and I first started dating, I struggled sooooo much with the fact I was bigger than him. In my head I believed no one like him could possibly be attracted to me. But you know what? He is. And he has continuously shown me that. He treats me better than I could ask for tbh. He’s shown me that it’s okay to let someone love you. It doesn’t matter what size they are or what size you are. Love is love. Attraction is attraction. And just bc there isn’t a lot of representation for couples of different sizes, doesn’t mean that it isn’t okay. It’s perfectly normal. So if you find yourself in the same situation that I did a little over a year ago, just know you are worthy of love 🫶🏼✨

#genuinerelationships #youareloved #youareworthy

2024/9/24 Edited to

... Read moreIn a world where societal standards often dictate relationship norms, it's important to recognize that love comes in all shapes and sizes. Many individuals grapple with self-esteem when they're in a relationship with someone who might be smaller than them. However, being larger than your partner doesn't diminish your value or attractiveness. Studies show that confidence plays a crucial role in attraction. People are drawn to those who embrace themselves fully and radiate positivity. Representation matters; seeing diverse couples can help normalize various body types in relationships. Platforms that showcase stories of love beyond size can empower those feeling insecure. Communication and mutual respect reinforce that love isn't based on appearances but emotional connection. It's vital to remind ourselves that we all deserve love, irrespective of our body size. Self-acceptance can forge deeper relationships, encouraging others to love and accept themselves as well. Remember, love is love; it transcends societal expectations and celebrates individuality.

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He loved me at 300 pounds he loves me at 155. He loves ME.

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Sometimes I see that my bf feels that way abt himself, but I am attracted to him no matter what and I love him with all my heart ❤️

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