It’s been the hardest part

As a mother, nobody tells you that it’s OK to wake up early and take care of yourself before the kids. Everyone always says the kids come first, the kids come first. But if you are not OK mentally spiritually physically, how are you expected to show up your best for your children? I know I was told this lie, and I’ve been working so hard to reverse it.💙🩵🕊️ #christianlifestyle #grwm #morning #proverbs

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... Read moreIn today's fast-paced world, motherhood often comes with societal pressures to put children first, leaving little room for personal care. However, nurturing oneself is vital for maintaining mental, spiritual, and physical health. The concept of the Proverbs 31 woman, often idealized in religious contexts, serves as a reminder that caring for oneself is not only acceptable but necessary. Modern interpretations suggest that if she lived today, she would likely advocate for a balanced life where self-care is prioritized. This shift in perspective helps mothers understand that to be their best selves for their families, they must first attend to their own needs. Taking time each day for activities that rejuvenate the spirit, such as morning routines that include mindfulness or exercise, represents an essential step in this journey. Engaging in self-care can foster a positive environment for children to thrive, showing them the importance of caring for their own mental health. By breaking the cycle of guilt tied to self-care in motherhood, women can embrace a healthier lifestyle, ultimately benefiting both themselves and their families. Remember, it’s not selfish to take care of yourself; it’s a fundamental aspect of effective parenting.

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