1 Decesion That Changed my Life✨
✨Choosing the right partner✨
How I got here❓
The HARD way 🫠
How did I know he was right for me?
1.) Respected my boundaries
2.) He modeled (and still does) integrity
3.) Valued quality time, family time 🥰 like I do.
2.) Was firm in my expectations (wants 🆚 don’t want)
3.) He moved slowly with me and led me not the other way around 💪
4.) I operated more in my feminine 🌸 energy and let him be the man
5.) Treated my daughter with the same love & respect 🥰
6.) Accepted me as I was and never dims my light ☀️
It’s literally that simple.
This post is dedicated to the man that holds it down for me always (emotionally, mentally, financially). He is my number 1 cheerleader. He holds me accountable when I lose focus and lifts me up when I am down. I could not have asked for a better life partner than him. We just get each other. And when we don’t we know how to communicate or take time to communicate what we need or want to improve our dynamic. We are a team in everything we do and are unstoppable.
It took me years to understand how vital this is to one’s overall well being. And that’s ok because all those hard lessons led me to loving and honoring the man he is and continues to become.
🔑 Takeaways:
Know yourself.
Want vs Don’t Want.
Don’t settle.
Choose wisely
& once you have the love - honor and commit to the work.
Blessings my dears! ✨❤️
Choosing the right partner is crucial for a fulfilling life. This decision influences your emotional, mental, and financial well-being and often comes with lessons learned over time. A supportive partner not only respects boundaries but also embodies integrity and values shared time together. As many have realized, a relationship thrives on knowing oneself, setting clear expectations, and having the self-awareness to discern wants from needs. It's essential not to settle for less in love; instead, seek someone who uplifts you and nurtures your true self. A successful partnership requires ongoing commitment, effective communication, and mutual respect. Remember, the journey may be challenging, but the right choice can lead to a supportive and loving dynamic. Therefore, embrace the lessons of the past, elevate your standards, and choose wisely to create the lasting love you deserve.
