HELP!! I need a decision BY TODAY!!

I’ve been trying to convince my mom for a couple weeks now to let me do black, but she’s absolutely unhappy about it. She’s been trying to talk me into going brown or more light, but the problem I have with this is that it’s my hair and I’m paying for it! I miss my black hair so much it’s unreal but I wouldn’t mind doing brown I would just like to be in the hair color I love the most out of all the colors I’ve done! My mom is pissed that I’m wanting go back black bc if I ever wanna go back light I won’t be able to for a year or so which is completely fine with me since I kept this color for the longest. We’re going to have a talk about it today and I need to know what I’m doing. Help me decide what to do!

Should I settle and go brown or do the color I love being black ?

#fyp #fypシ #momproblems #parenting #foryou #foryoupage #helpmechoose #helpplease #help

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2024/3/19 Edited to

... Read moreDeciding on a hair color can be challenging, especially when it involves family opinions. Many choose to follow their passion for personal expression through their hairstyles. Black hair often conveys a bold and classic look, while brown can offer a softer appearance. Consider the upkeep and how each color suits your skin tone. Research shows that personal satisfaction with hair color can significantly boost confidence. Additionally, consulting with professional hairstylists may provide insight into how to transition between colors effectively. If you're also in a similar predicament, don't hesitate to share your experiences online to find support from those who've been through the same dilemma. Remember, it’s ultimately your hair and your choice, so make the decision that feels right for you!

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do like a 2n or 3n where it’s almostttt black but not quite, or say f it and go black cause it’s your hair and you’re paying

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