The truth about uni
hey guys! i’m currently home for the weekend but besides me being happy in campus, i thought i could share the downsides of being the youngest kid in the family in a new environment and the first to move out. when it came to moving in last month, i was sad to leave my family but happy to be able to be my own person in a new environment. through this last month, i was able to see the friends i made in corpus, focus on my academics and be able to do things that i love. i never thought id get really homesick but after being home this weekend, i realized how much i missed being in my room that i filled with so much for years, being with my dog every single morning and night until it was his bedtime, actually being around my parents (they’re always looking out for me even if im far) and getting to see my best friends in places im familiar with. i’m lowkey devastated that i have to go back but it’s because im still not fully adjusted. i never knew all of these things and even though right now, i feel like crap because i’m somewhere that’s actually familiar and i miss it, i’m still happy i get to build my own independence as a person. it’s hard whenever you’re the youngest and you made your goal, so what now? all you gotta do is breathe and keep moving on. that’s the best we can do for right now. at the end, everything will be okay and the work will be worth it. i have to finish up some school work but i feel like it was important to share honestly how i felt going home after the first three weeks of classes. keep pushing through it and have a wonderful day :)
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Hey everyone, building on my last post about the rollercoaster of first-year uni, I wanted to dive a little deeper into navigating those initial challenges. I know I mentioned homesickness, and wow, it hits different when you're truly on your own. It's completely normal to feel a pang for your old room, your pet, or just the familiar comforts of home, especially when you're experiencing the 'first year edition' of university life. What helped me cope? Setting up regular video calls with my family and dog, but also making sure I wasn't only relying on that. I brought a cozy blanket from home as a little piece of comfort. More importantly, I started actively exploring my new surroundings – finding a favorite coffee shop, a quiet park, or even just a new study spot on campus. These small discoveries helped me feel more settled and less like a visitor. Don't be afraid to cry it out when you need to; it's a valid way to process emotions, and you're definitely not alone in feeling this way. Beyond the emotional side, actually adjusting to university life is a whole other beast. I quickly learned the importance of getting involved. Joining a couple of clubs related to my interests, even if I was nervous at first, was a game-changer for meeting new people outside of my immediate flatmates. It gives you a sense of belonging and something to look forward to. Also, figuring out the campus layout, where the best study spots are, and even basic things like grocery shopping and cooking for myself (hello, instant noodles!) became part of my new routine. The 'first year edition' of this independence means figuring out everything from laundry to budgeting – it’s a steep learning curve but so rewarding. And let's not forget academics! It's easy to get overwhelmed with new subjects and a different learning style. I've been trying to treat my studies like a 9-5 job, so I have evenings free for socializing or just unwinding. Prioritizing my mental health has been huge – whether it's through walks, listening to music, or just having a chat with a new friend. Remember, your university probably has tons of support services, from academic advisors to counseling, so don't hesitate to reach out if things feel too much. This whole 'uni experience' is about growth, not perfection. It's a journey with its ups and downs, but every challenge is a step towards becoming a more independent and capable person. Keep pushing through, you've got this!