How I’m Getting My Pink Back 🦩✨
Did you know that female flamingos lose their pink after having babies?
Their bodies become pale because they give so much of themselves to feeding and caring for their babies that their color literally fades.
Honestly…motherhood can feel like that sometimes.
You love your babies more than anything, but somewhere in between the sleepless nights, surviving postpartum, and constantly giving to everyone else, you can start to feel disconnected from yourself.
Lately, I’ve been trying to “get my pink back” — not by trying to go back to who I was before motherhood, but by caring for the version of me that exists because I became a mom ♡.
Things helping me feel more like myself:
♡ reading bible stories about women like Esther & Ruth
♡ doing pilates a few times a week — the goal is daily but sometimes it doesn’t always work out that way (I follow Move with Nicole on YouTube, 10/10 recommend!!)
♡ sticking to a skincare routine so my skin feels healthier
♡ reading books again instead of only scrolling
♡ eating healthier and cutting out artificial dyes/flavors that trigger my acne
♡ actually sitting down to drink my coffee & eat my breakfast
♡ wearing jewelry every day
♡ curling my hair or trying heatless curls
♡ wearing dresses to church instead of living in leggings 24/7
None of these are huge life changes. But all of them combined helps me remember that I’m still me even if I’m a mom now
Becoming a mother is a beautiful and transformative experience, but it's also common to feel like parts of yourself fade away, much like female flamingos losing their pink color after caring for their babies. I've personally found that small, intentional lifestyle changes can help reignite that inner vibrancy. For example, dedicating even just 10-15 minutes a few times a week to gentle pilates or stretching routines helps me reconnect with my body and mind. I also noticed that removing artificial dyes and flavors from my diet not only improved my skin but also boosted my energy levels throughout the day. Another practice that truly makes a difference is setting aside time to enjoy simple pleasures, such as savoring my morning coffee without distractions and indulging in a good book instead of endless scrolling. These moments provide a sense of calm and personal fulfillment that’s critical for mental wellness. In addition, embracing small beauty rituals—like curling my hair heatlessly, wearing jewelry, or choosing dresses over more casual clothes—often reminds me that I’m worthy of self-care. These routines have nothing to do with vanity but everything to do with reclaiming my identity beyond motherhood. Lastly, I find inspiration in stories of strong women like Esther and Ruth from the Bible, which encourages me to embrace vulnerability and strength simultaneously. Every mother’s journey is unique, but nurturing these small yet meaningful habits can help restore your glow and remind you that you are still, and always will be, enough.