Dealing w/ Query Rejections - A Writer’s Rant #4
Hi Lemonheads!
Query rejections are the worst. They literally just pop up in your inbox all unannounced—they don’t care whether you’re having a good day or a bad day. However, if you want to be traditionally published, you have to get used to them.
Treat yourself with your favorite snack and binge your comfort show. But after a while, all you need is a friend to vent to — it helps if that friend is also a querying writer because in these trenches, you’re going to need your fellow soldiers in battle!!
Where to find these writers you ask??? Anywhere! I met two at a writing conference and a few on Twitter/X. Follow the writing hashtags on different platforms, and you’ll find your tribe! You never know — sometimes a beta reader will end up being one of your best friends!
At the end, rejections mean that you’re doing your thing! You’re putting your writing out there. Remember you don’t make the shots you don’t take.
Until next time.
-M.
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Query rejections can be tough to handle, especially for aspiring authors eager to see their work in print. Understanding the process and acknowledging that rejection is a part of the journey is crucial. When faced with rejection, it's essential to allow yourself a moment to process those emotions. Consider treating yourself to your favorite snacks or binge-watching a comforting series to shift your mindset. Moreover, connecting with fellow writers who are experiencing the same hurdles can provide significant comfort and encouragement. Writing communities are vibrant spaces where you can share your struggles, seek advice, and celebrate each other's victories. Utilizing social media platforms or attending local writing events can help you find these supportive networks. The right tribe can mean the difference between feeling isolated and feeling empowered. It's also beneficial to review any feedback you receive from publishers, as constructive criticism might offer insights that enhance your writing skills. Ultimately, remember that each rejection is a step closer to your goal. Keep putting your work out there, learn from feedback, and don’t shy away from seeking emotional support. Your persistence and community connection will pave the way to your eventual success!
Yesss to all of these!