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If INFJ wants to be a girlfriend, start with a friend first.

Do you think this sentence is true?

But for us who are INFJ, really think

Like a base on a true story. ðŸĪĢðŸĪĢðŸĪĢ

Not sure what the experience was like. Let me tell you about myself.

Some people think that friend zone is dangerous, which is really dangerous. Not honest with friends. There is a lot of opportunity to lose friends, but our INFJ doesn't like relationships.

We don't like people who have never known each other before. Suddenly, come to say hello. We will avoid this type of person a lot, or even our dating app does not play because it feels that the download is probably pickled. Do not dare to brush because of fear of meeting people (confused)

We prefer our little-by-little acquaintance to superficial acquaintance, so that's why we want to be friends first.

Now come to the question, "Ao, don't you lose friends?"

We want to say that we are scared, but it seems that after we know that person's habits, we should set him in what category, haha.

Well, we're not going to jump in quickly. We're going to wait for this person, right? Worth the risk of trying to change the relationship from a friend to a girlfriend? If not worth the risk, that person is the friend zone forever, haha.

Like our husband, now before we were boyfriends, we were close friends with him for two years before deciding to be boyfriends for another 9 years until now we are married. 😅

I think it's a plus, because when we're friends, we know all of Itani's belly-bottomless secret habits. It's like a screen. The habit goes in, haha. We feel comfortable, safe, being ourselves to date him.

INFJ. Are other people like us? Let's share.

# Love story# infj # infjpersonality # Love experience # mbti

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... Read moreāļˆāļēāļāļ›āļĢāļ°āļŠāļšāļāļēāļĢāļ“āđŒāļŠāđˆāļ§āļ™āļ•āļąāļ§āļ‚āļ­āļ‡āļ„āļ™āļ—āļĩāđˆāđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™ INFJ āđ€āļŦāļĄāļ·āļ­āļ™āļāļąāļ™āļžāļšāļ§āđˆāļē āļāļēāļĢāđ€āļĢāļīāđˆāļĄāļ•āđ‰āļ™āļ”āđ‰āļ§āļĒāļāļēāļĢāđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āđ€āļžāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ™āļ­āļēāļˆāļ”āļđāđ€āļŦāļĄāļ·āļ­āļ™āđ„āļĄāđˆāđ„āļ”āđ‰āđ‚āļĢāđāļĄāļ™āļ•āļīāļāļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āđ€āļĢāđˆāļ‡āļ”āđˆāļ§āļ™āđ€āļŦāļĄāļ·āļ­āļ™āļāļąāļšāļ„āļ™āļ­āļ·āđˆāļ™āđ† āđāļ•āđˆāļŠāļģāļŦāļĢāļąāļš INFJ āđāļĨāđ‰āļ§ āļāļēāļĢāļĢāļđāđ‰āļˆāļąāļāļ„āđˆāļ­āļĒāđ† āļ—āļģāļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāđ€āļ‚āđ‰āļēāđƒāļˆāļ™āļīāļŠāļąāļĒ āļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļ„āļīāļ” āđāļĨāļ°āļˆāļīāļ•āđƒāļˆāļ„āļ™āđ† āļ™āļąāđ‰āļ™ āļ—āļģāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļŠāļąāļĄāļžāļąāļ™āļ˜āđŒāļ™āļąāđ‰āļ™āļĄāļąāđˆāļ™āļ„āļ‡āđāļĨāļ°āļĒāļąāđˆāļ‡āļĒāļ·āļ™āļĄāļēāļāļ‚āļķāđ‰āļ™ āđ€āļžāļĢāļēāļ° INFJ āļĄāļĩāļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļĨāļ°āđ€āļ­āļĩāļĒāļ”āļ­āđˆāļ­āļ™āđāļĨāļ°āļĄāļąāļāļˆāļ°āļĄāļ­āļ‡āļĨāļķāļāđ„āļ›āļ–āļķāļ‡āļˆāļīāļ•āđƒāļˆ āļ—āļģāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļ•āđ‰āļ­āļ‡āļāļēāļĢāđ€āļ§āļĨāļēāļ„āđˆāļ­āļĒāđ† āļ”āļđāļ§āđˆāļēāđƒāļ„āļĢāđ€āļŦāļĄāļēāļ°āļŠāļĄāļˆāļ°āđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āđāļŸāļ™āļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āđ„āļĄāđˆ āļ—āļģāđƒāļŦāđ‰āđ€āļĢāļēāđ€āļĨāļ·āļ­āļāđƒāļŠāđ‰āđ€āļ§āļĨāļē screening āļ•āļąāļ§āļ„āļ™āđ€āļžāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ›āļāļ›āđ‰āļ­āļ‡āđƒāļˆ āđ„āļĄāđˆāđ€āļˆāđ‡āļšāļ‹āđ‰āļģāļ‹āđ‰āļ­āļ™ āļĒāļīāđˆāļ‡āđƒāļ™āļĒāļļāļ„āļ›āļąāļˆāļˆāļļāļšāļąāļ™āļ—āļĩāđˆāļŠāļąāļ‡āļ„āļĄāļ­āļ­āļ™āđ„āļĨāļ™āđŒāđāļĨāļ°āđāļ­āļ›āļŦāļēāļ„āļđāđˆāđ€āļ›āļīāļ”āđ‚āļ­āļāļēāļŠāđƒāļŦāđ‰āđ€āļˆāļ­āļ„āļ™āđ„āļ”āđ‰āļ‡āđˆāļēāļĒāļĄāļēāļ āļ„āļ™āđāļšāļš INFJ āļĄāļąāļāļˆāļ°āļĢāļđāđ‰āļŠāļķāļāļāļąāļ‡āļ§āļĨāđāļĨāļ°āđ„āļĄāđˆāđ„āļ§āđ‰āđƒāļˆāđƒāļ™āļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļŠāļąāļĄāļžāļąāļ™āļ˜āđŒāļ—āļĩāđˆāđ€āļāļīāļ”āļ­āļĒāđˆāļēāļ‡āļĢāļ§āļ”āđ€āļĢāđ‡āļ§ āļˆāļķāļ‡āđ€āļĨāļ·āļ­āļāļ—āļĩāđˆāļˆāļ°āđ„āļĄāđˆāđƒāļŠāđ‰āđāļ­āļ›āđ€āļŦāļĨāđˆāļēāļ™āļąāđ‰āļ™ āđāļĨāļ°āļĄāļąāļāļˆāļ°āļŦāļĨāļĩāļāđ€āļĨāļĩāđˆāļĒāļ‡āļāļēāļĢāļ—āļąāļāļ—āļēāļĒāļˆāļēāļāļ„āļ™āđāļ›āļĨāļāļŦāļ™āđ‰āļē āļāļēāļĢāļ—āļĩāđˆ INFJ āļĢāļąāļāļĐāļēāļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļŠāļąāļĄāļžāļąāļ™āļ˜āđŒāđāļšāļšāđ€āļžāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ™āđ€āļ­āļēāđ„āļ§āđ‰āļˆāļ™āļĄāļąāđˆāļ™āđƒāļˆāđƒāļ™āļ„āļ™āļ™āļąāđ‰āļ™āđ† āđ€āļ§āļĨāļēāļ—āļĩāđˆāđ€āļ‚āļēāđ„āļ›āđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āđāļŸāļ™āđāļĨāđ‰āļ§ āļĄāļąāļ™āđ€āļŦāļĄāļ·āļ­āļ™āļāļąāļšāđ€āļĢāļēāđ„āļ”āđ‰āđ€āļŦāđ‡āļ™āļ—āļļāļāļĄāļļāļĄ āļ—āļąāđ‰āļ‡āļ‚āđ‰āļ­āļ”āļĩāđāļĨāļ°āļ‚āđ‰āļ­āđ€āļŠāļĩāļĒ āļ—āļģāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļĢāļđāđ‰āļŠāļķāļāļ§āđˆāļēāđ€āļĢāļēāļĒāļ­āļĄāļĢāļąāļšāđāļĨāļ°āļĢāļąāļāđ€āļ‚āļēāļˆāļĢāļīāļ‡āđ† āđ„āļĄāđˆāđƒāļŠāđˆāđāļ„āđˆāļĢāļđāļ›āļĨāļąāļāļĐāļ“āđŒāļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āļ āļēāļžāļĨāļąāļāļĐāļ“āđŒāļ āļēāļĒāļ™āļ­āļ āļ‹āļķāđˆāļ‡āđ€āļŦāļ•āļļāļœāļĨāļ™āļĩāđ‰āđ€āļ­āļ‡āļ—āļģāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāļ„āļĢāļąāđ‰āļ‡āļ—āļĩāđˆ INFJ āļ­āļēāļˆāđƒāļŠāđ‰āđ€āļ§āļĨāļēāļ™āļēāļ™āđƒāļ™āļāļēāļĢāļ‚āļĒāļąāļšāļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļŠāļąāļĄāļžāļąāļ™āļ˜āđŒāļˆāļēāļāđ€āļžāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ™āđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āđāļŸāļ™ āđāļ•āđˆāļāđ‡āļŠāļĢāđ‰āļēāļ‡āļŠāļēāļĒāļŠāļąāļĄāļžāļąāļ™āļ˜āđŒāļ—āļĩāđˆāđāļ™āđˆāļ™āđāļŸāđ‰āļ™āđāļĨāļ°āļĒāļąāđˆāļ‡āļĒāļ·āļ™ āļ­āļĒāđˆāļēāļ‡āļ•āļąāļ§āļ­āļĒāđˆāļēāļ‡āļœāļđāđ‰āđ€āļ‚āļĩāļĒāļ™āļ—āļĩāđˆāđƒāļŠāđ‰āđ€āļ§āļĨāļēāļ„āļšāļŦāļēāļāļąāļ™āđƒāļ™āļāļēāļ™āļ°āđ€āļžāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ™āļ–āļķāļ‡ 2 āļ›āļĩ āļāđˆāļ­āļ™āļˆāļ°āđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āđāļŸāļ™āđāļĨāļ°āđāļ•āđˆāļ‡āļ‡āļēāļ™āđƒāļ™āļ—āļĩāđˆāļŠāļļāļ” āļŠāļĢāļļāļ›āđāļĨāđ‰āļ§ āļāļēāļĢāđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āđ€āļžāļ·āđˆāļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™āļŠāļģāļŦāļĢāļąāļš INFJ āđ„āļĄāđˆāđ„āļ”āđ‰āļŦāļĄāļēāļĒāļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļ§āđˆāļēāļˆāļ°āļ–āļđāļ friend zone āļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āđ€āļŠāļĩāļĒāđ‚āļ­āļāļēāļŠāđ€āļŠāļĄāļ­āđ„āļ› āđāļ•āđˆāđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™āļ§āļīāļ˜āļĩāļāļēāļĢāļ„āđˆāļ­āļĒāđ† āļŠāļĢāđ‰āļēāļ‡āļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāđ„āļ§āđ‰āđƒāļˆ āđāļĨāļ°āđ€āļ•āļĢāļĩāļĒāļĄāđƒāļˆāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļžāļĢāđ‰āļ­āļĄāļŠāļģāļŦāļĢāļąāļšāļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļŠāļąāļĄāļžāļąāļ™āļ˜āđŒāļ—āļĩāđˆāļĨāļķāļāļ‹āļķāđ‰āļ‡āđāļĨāļ°āđāļ—āđ‰āļˆāļĢāļīāļ‡ āļŦāļēāļāđƒāļ„āļĢāđ€āļ›āđ‡āļ™ INFJ āđāļšāļšāļ™āļĩāđ‰ āļŦāļĢāļ·āļ­āļĢāļđāđ‰āļˆāļąāļ INFJ āļĨāļ­āļ‡āđƒāļŦāđ‰āđ€āļ§āļĨāļēāļžāļ§āļāđ€āļ‚āļēāđ„āļ”āđ‰āđ€āļĢāļĩāļĒāļ™āļĢāļđāđ‰āđāļĨāļ°āļ„āđˆāļ­āļĒāđ† āļŠāļēāļ™āļŠāļąāļĄāļžāļąāļ™āļ˜āđŒāļ”āđ‰āļ§āļĒāļĄāļīāļ•āļĢāļ āļēāļž āļ­āļēāļˆāļ—āļģāđƒāļŦāđ‰āļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļĢāļąāļāđƒāļ™āļ­āļ™āļēāļ„āļ•āđāļ‚āđ‡āļ‡āđāļĢāļ‡āđāļĨāļ°āļĄāļĩāļ„āļ§āļēāļĄāļŦāļĄāļēāļĒāļĄāļēāļāļāļ§āđˆāļēāļ—āļĩāđˆāļ„āļēāļ”āļ„āļīāļ”