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My girlfriend has never posted a picture, but...

We are the ones who used to be upset about why.# Boyfriend doesn't post picturesWe are good. One part of me understands that I don't play social self-deprecating (focus on playing for entertainment), but I want him to come down and tag some, not let us down and tag him on one side.

But believe it, we don't last long because this is what they've always done for us, but we can't see it because of the illusions that other people create.

- When they first got together, he used to take a taxi at 3: 00 in the morning to come to us because he knew we were sick (we were home with only two brothers) to take us to the doctor without a private car.

- When menstruation comes, he'll prepare a hot water bag and painkillers because he knows we can't get anywhere.

- When he's sick, he volunteers to drive us to the hospital every time without complaining.

- He will exercise a lot because we are not very strong, but if there is a special opportunity, he will invite us to eat something delicious too.

And a lot of other things that make our lives 300% happier with him.

This teaches us that what we see on the social world doesn't matter. It's about other people that we don't even know if it's true, maybe it's true, maybe it's created.

But the most real thing is that the things in front of us, the things that other people don't see, the things that fans make us without hoping for other people's admiration, this is the most important thing.

# Lemon 8 invites # Relationship narrative # Good story # This life

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