Share the experience, decide to stay with your girlfriend.

This post may be our only comment, but it's a useful experience and I want to share it.

Well, if it were about 10 years ago, it might not be very acceptable, but we're glad that 2026 is a much more open question because we decided to stay with our girlfriend nine years ago, and it's hard, according to society and the age.

Before we dress up, we have more advantages than dressing up and then living together. Is it about learning habits, living habits, dating habits, personal habits are not the same. Can we accept everything that is him? Or can he accept us? If we survive, can we love each other more? In our case, can we increase the reception at his house? Because it is not separated from 2 people, but go to his house. 😅

The only disadvantage that we encountered was that it was difficult in the beginning, had to tune many times. During that time, I thought that I would lose my face and be very sad. If I quarrel and move out, I have to hit many people again because there are many people ready to repeat, haha. But luckily, we love each other enough to continue to get married and live together to this day.

What we have to deal with is "people," both parents, people who work, including people at the boyfriend's house, older people who still have conservative ideas, may have to fight this, may have to be good for people at the girlfriend's house to accept, and must fight the voices around them (who don't even need to pay attention), be hard enough to bear those words, be sure that we didn't do anything wrong, we are old and make our own decisions, but there are people who understand, like friends or some mature people, not everyone is mean to us.

After going through everything, we feel very good in life, like going through so many stages to know what we need to focus on, and many people start to accept this idea, so there are friends talking, hahahaha Marriage goes without knowing each other well and breaks up later, we think it's a lot more painful.

But being pre-married doesn't guarantee eternal love. I think it's more like a tool to help cleansing the primary "soul mate," that we actually meet green flag people, reduce future problems.

What does everyone think?

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