Breakups can be tough, and sometimes it feels like your ex is out there pretending to love someone else, which only adds to the pain. I’ve personally found that a bad day can make us focus on these thoughts more intensely. It's comforting, though, to remind ourselves that not everything we see in others' lives—especially virtual ones like in VRChat—is real or reflects true emotions. Using VRChat as a way to escape or connect can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it offers a place to meet people and share new experiences, helping to fill the void left by a breakup. On the other hand, encountering fake relationships or deceptive interactions may reinforce feelings of sadness or distrust. I’ve learned to approach such virtual spaces with awareness—not to dwell on others' pretend love but to focus on healing and real-life connections. A helpful way I cope on bad days is to acknowledge my feelings without judgment and reach out to friends or communities who understand what it’s like to deal with broken hearts. It’s important to create a safe place, whether physically or emotionally, where you can stay grounded. Remember, healing is a journey, and even when your ex seems to be moving on with fake love, your path to genuine happiness is just beginning.