small things that increase feminine energy 💋
Sometimes I struggle with feeling feminine. When I younger I use to think femininity had to do with long hair, soft features, super girly clothes, being flirty & at the time I had none of that. I was a “TomBoy” and when I exited that stage of my life I felt like I was in limbo. But naturally As i’ve gotten older i’ve discovered things that help me embrace my feminine energy!
1. Surrounding Myself With Flowers
For some reason I use to hate flowers & now I can’t get enough of them. I just love getting to wake up to them or seeing them throughout the day, always brings a smile to my face 🤭
2. Spa Days
A self care/pamper night is always a good thing. It gives me time to do face masks, read a book and just focus on giving myself some TLC. I like to do them at home to save money but the occasional appointment is always a treat!
3. Trying Hair Extentions
Your hair does not need to be long to be feminine but sometimes it’s nice to have a lil extra length!
4. Keeping My Nails Done
Since learning to do my on nails this has become 10x easier. Having nails done, whether extensions or natural nails just helps you feel more put together .
5. Dressing Up Even On Lazy Days
It can be so hard to not wear sweats some days but then those are the days I also feel not the best about myself. So to combat that I like to put more effort into my outfit’s especially my lazy ones by adding jewelry or wearing better shoes.
6. A Solid Makeup Routine
Again makeup does not define beauty, but I have found that I have makeup routines for almost all of my moods to help me feel put together. For example on really natural days maybe only blush & lip gloss but I also have a go to routine for getting really dressed up!
7. Romantizing The Process
Wash days, everything showers, & getting ready can be so time consuming. Sometimes I get overwhelmed or just tired of the process but finding ways to make it feel like you are in a movie, like recording it, makes it so much more fun!
8. Taking Pics Even When “ I Don’t Feel Pretty “
This is something I really struggle with but im getting better at liking my off guards, non posed photos & bad days. Because whenever I look back at them I realize that how I felt in the moment is really not what’s depicted in the photo!
9. Embracing The Seasons
Like romantizing the process, embracing the seasons is a great way to feel like you’re in a movie. I like to plan at least one seasonal activity & also try more seasonal food to help me feel more in the moment!
Let me know your tips for embracing your feminine energy! Would love to add some new things to my life or routines 🤍
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Selain tips yang sudah saya bagikan, saya juga menemukan bahwa menyisihkan waktu sekadar untuk mendengarkan musik favorit atau menulis jurnal dapat memperkuat rasa feminin secara emosional. Kadang, duduk santai sambil menyalakan lilin aroma terapi juga memberi suasana yang menenangkan dan membantu saya terhubung dengan sisi lembut diri. Mengenai penampilan, tidak harus selalu berdandan lengkap; memakai aksesori sederhana seperti kalung atau gelang favorit mampu meningkatkan rasa percaya diri tanpa perlu usaha berlebih. Saya juga mencoba bergabung dengan komunitas yang membersamai pengembangan femininitas, sehingga mendapat inspirasi baru dan saling mendukung dalam perjalanan ini. Selain itu, jangan ragu untuk bereksperimen dengan gaya rambut dan warna yang membuat kamu merasa nyaman dan bahagia. Mengabadikan momen pribadi dalam foto yang natural juga membantuku menerima dan mencintai diri di setiap kondisi, terutama saat merasa kurang percaya diri. Dengan menggabungkan berbagai pendekatan seperti yang saya alami, kamu bisa menemukan cara unik untuk memperkuat energi feminin yang membuat hidup terasa lebih bermakna dan penuh warna.
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