Many of us grow up with the belief that love needs to be earned through constant sacrifice and giving, often at the cost of our own well-being. I can personally relate to this struggle; I spent years trying to prove my worth by being overly understanding and patient, even when it left me drained and disconnected from myself. It was only after deep self-reflection and shadow work that I realized true love does not demand self-abandonment. In my healing journey, I embraced the powerful notion that love is not about how much you give or how long you stay, but about accepting and allowing love to flow to you freely. Recognizing that my worth comes from who I am—not what I do for others—transformed my relationships. I stopped sacrificing my needs to keep others comfortable and instead learned to set healthy boundaries that honor myself. Incorporating concepts from "The Rebirth Code™," I practiced asking myself, "Where did I learn that my worth comes from what I give instead of who I am?" This shadow work enabled me to shed limiting beliefs and embrace a version of love that feels nurturing rather than draining. By reframing love as something to be received rather than earned, I unlocked a profound sense of self-love and empowerment. For anyone trapped in cycles of people-pleasing or fear of rejection, this shift offers a path toward emotional healing and self-worth restoration. It invites you to question the old messages about love and rewrite your story to embrace healthy, balanced affection that uplifts you without requiring sacrifice. Remember, the woman reborn in this mindset no longer disappears to love; she shows up fully, radiant and whole, ready to receive love as her birthright.