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If you are older, what kind of choice?☺️

🌤️ Stay in Bangkok, fight... or go home, start over?

We just graduated now. 🎓

Is in the job hunt - which, frankly, it's not easy. 😞

Opened in the application app, there are a lot of positions. Write "Happy to accept new graduates."

But when actually filing... back quiet like never wanting anyone

I just had another interview yesterday. I didn't.

Honestly, I'm sorry, because we expected so much.

Thought, "This is it, yeah," but finally missed it again. 💔

So I got to the point of really asking myself...

We should stay in Bangkok, fight for opportunity.

Or go back to the province to start again comfortably.

In Bangkok, the salary may be more than 15,000 to 18,000 baht.

But the cost of the room, the cost of travel, the cost of three meals.

No more money to send home is included. 😩

Every morning you wake up, race against time, race against traffic jams, race against your own fatigue.

But if you go home, your salary will be in the top tens of thousands.

Life could be simpler. No rush.

Being close to family, but afraid of losing some opportunities.

Now many seniors have decided to go home.

We started asking ourselves... or should we go back? 🥺

Would like to ask everyone who has been at this point

If it were you... would choose "Stay to Fight" or "Back to Start Again"?

🩵, please share your view.

Maybe your advice is a small light to many others. ✨

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2025/10/15 Edited to

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