i rebuke this in all future friendships or relationships. I FORGAVE THEM FOR WORSE

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... Read moreIn my experience, friendships that end over minor misunderstandings often stem from a lack of honest communication. I've seen many people claim to be "ride or die," but in reality, they just want friends of convenience—people who are there when it's easy but disappear at the first sign of conflict. One key lesson I've learned is that forgiving others for bigger mistakes is worthwhile, but when it comes to repeated small miscommunications or unresolved issues, it becomes exhausting and damaging. It's important to set boundaries and not accept being treated as a casual friend while expecting unconditional loyalty from you. To build meaningful friendships, openness and willingness to talk through problems are essential. Avoiding confrontation or sweeping issues under the rug only leads to resentment. I rebuke the idea that we should tolerate everything in the name of friendship or relationships. True friends respect each other's feelings and make an effort to understand one another. If you find yourself repeatedly hurt by friends who do not communicate clearly or value you only when convenient, it might be time to reassess those bonds. Forgiveness has its place, but so does self-respect. Healthy friendships thrive on mutual effort, honest dialogue, and empathy—not on habitual misunderstandings or self-serving "ride or die" claims.