Every day is an investment in what you love, don't waste it. So often I talk to my friends that want to experience real love and have a better relationship with their partner but are only really looking for the quickest and easiest solution to getting their needs met. They want all of the benefits but without all of the work or responsibility.

To experience real love takes real effort and emotional growth because we don't live in an emotionally healthy world, we aren't taught how to cope with our thoughts and feelings, we are taught dependency and attachment, manipulation and guilt.

What are you doing for yourself today to grow into the person who is prepared for love? What are you doing today to nurture yourself and your partner for tomorrow? How exactly is your life and your relationships going to be better a year from now? Five years from now? If your relationship isn't growing then it's slowly dying. How many relationships have you been in? Why has going from relationship to relationship become such the norm now?

Relationships are becoming as disposable and replaceable as our cell phones, we've literally become consumers of relationships. We have to learn how to grow healthier, stronger relationships if we want our lives to have any real value and meaning and if we want to experience a lasting love. Invest in yourself, invest in your partner, invest in what love is instead of what it's not.

Don’t waste time arguing over nonsense, have a safe open space to communicate honestly and respectfully and balance out each other.

Never say anything that you have to apologize for some words leave deep scars. Build a relationship with respect and understanding as your foundation.

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