Before I die…
“Lately I've been thinking about who I want to love, and how I want to love, and why I want to love the way I want to love, and what I need to learn to love that way, and how I need to become the kind of love I want to be.
And when I break it all down, when I whittle it into a single breath, it essentially comes out like this:
before I die, I want to be somebody's favorite hiding place,
the place they can put everything they need to survive,
every secret, every solitude, every nervous prayer, and be absolutely certain I will keep it safe.
Before I die, I want to be somebody’s butterfly wings to remind that they fly and they are beautiful no matter what the world says.
Before I die, I want to be a safe heaven a sanctuary a heart full of fire that burns with love and passion..
before I die, I want to hold a hand that need’s to feel the pride and hope I see in them to see himself through my eyes…
Before I die, I want to be somebody’s favorite song and a poetry tell the tale of the past and future and get lost in time….
before I die, I will ...
before I die, I will keep it safe.”
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Reflecting on the powerful message behind 'Before I Die,' I've found it deeply inspiring to think about how we can become pillars of support and sources of love for those around us. In my personal experience, becoming someone's 'favorite hiding place' isn't about grand gestures but small acts of trust—listening without judgment and offering a calm presence in times of chaos. I've learned that embodying love the way this piece describes requires intentional growth and self-awareness. It’s about understanding that love is not just an emotion but a committed practice of safeguarding others' vulnerabilities and encouraging them to embrace their own beauty and strength—like being their 'butterfly wings.' Creating a safe haven for others has transformed my relationships, reminding me that love flourishes in spaces filled with acceptance, passion, and hope. Watching someone see themselves through your eyes and helping to ignite their pride and confidence can be life-changing—for them and for you. Moreover, being 'somebody’s favorite song' or a comforting poetry reflects the timelessness of genuine connections, where we share histories and dreams that defy time. It’s a reminder to cherish every encounter as an opportunity to create meaning and leave a lasting imprint. Before we leave this world, striving to be these things—a sanctuary, a confidant, an inspiration—adds profound purpose to our lives. It encourages us to nurture empathy, passion, and safety in our daily interactions. Ultimately, keeping these promises safe within our hearts enriches not only others but also our own journey toward becoming the kind of love we aspire to be.