Why do some men choose "love the old" rather than forget? 💔
1. Familiar - Stay together for a long time, so it's safer than starting a new one that doesn't know what it's like.
2. Remember only the sweet period - the brain chooses only good memories, making it feel that reconciliation should be better.
3. Still emotionally bound - Some bonds do not disappear immediately. Even the reasons are enough to break up.
4. Regret / frustration - want to fix, want answers, want to make up for lost things
5. Fear of starting again - fear of repeated pain, fear of wasting time, fear of developing again
6. Serious Reasons - Home, Work or Joint Responsibility Make the Choice
Then why might "old people" not love back?
1. Hurt until having to protect himself - he may choose not to return to heal his own heart.
2.Learn that it is not suitable - pass the time, know that it is not compatible at the crucial point.
3. Already starting over - someone may have found a new happiness that does not want to leave.
4. Don't want to go back to the original solution - afraid of the same loop and don't want to take another risk.
5. Trust is broken - back can repeat the same problem.
6.Love is not a regulation - love must be caused by both sides. Not one side tries.
And it's not wrong to still love the old person, but don't forget to love yourself too. ❤️