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Moved alone, learned what??

- Really have time for yourself...If you want to do anything, you can do it. You don't have to pay attention to whether you have friends or you have to wait for someone to do it. If you want to eat something, you can eat it. If in the past, you have to have friends, you have to have someone to go with, but now it's very comfortable. Eat movies, watch movies, travel alone, comfortably.

- Responsible for everything...Whether the cost of the room, the cost of the water, the cost of the electricity, the cost of the things that can work to pay for themselves, do not ask anyone or rely on anyone.

- Mental health is better. Cry less...In the past, he liked to think a lot. What would this person think of us or would he care about us? He spoke badly, kept thinking a lot. Or when alone, sometimes he hardly cried, thought of anything, happy all day.

- A little lonely?? But very childish. Sometimes really lonely. Where to travel? There are no people to turn to talk to. But feel like this is okay. If lonely, turn on YouTube, listen to or listen to various podcasts. When traveling alone, meet dogs, cats or cute people. Feel very happy.

Seriously, moving a lot alone, it is a time when both feeling very good or feeling lonely, some sadness according to the feeling, but pass well, pass very well, do not rely on anyone, because in the end, there is only us who are with us for the last day, hope that everyone will have time to be alone and be happy. 💖

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