🚩 5 Signal Toxic Relationship

Have you ever felt tired and hurt but always reasoned with him?..The more love, the more you give up, the more you hurt, today we will take five dangerous signs of a "Toxic Relationship" that many people often overlook or tolerate because they think it's normal. 👇

1. Normalizing Verbal Abuse is normal. 🗣️❌

• Beginning with an intimate pronoun, but deep down is not honorable. Even if used in an argument to press the other person to look lower, that is the initial sign of verbal violence. Smart people do not do it.

2. Be polite to the outsiders. The Jekyll & Hyde Effect. 🎭🤔

• With friends, colleagues, even strangers, he seems to be nice, polite, humble, but when he is with us, he becomes another person, ironically pranks, bites everything. Psychology says that this is a superiority show to the person he feels "controlled."

3. Mayhem...Even a little is "hurt." (Physical Violence is Never Okay) 🥊🚫

• Whether it's just pushing, squeezing your arms hard or throwing something at it, it's not an uncontrollable act of anger, it's a violent decision to intimidate, the more it allows, the more it opens the way for violence to rise in the future, the more often it's broken, if not careful.

4. Constant Belittling, 🗣️💔

• Usually using words that violently prick the heart, such as "you have nothing good," "what a heel to think," "stupid," or words that insult our ability, face, or background, is a behavior that tries to make us feel worthless so that they can control the game easily.

5. Make us look wrong or like to control (Gaslighting & Controlling) 🌀🧠

• Behavior: Like to secretly check a mobile phone, spread to delete friends, do not hang around with anyone, or when we catch him doing a mistake, he will return until we become guilty, until we start to wonder about ourselves, "Or do we think?" or "Are we that bad?"

"Good" love must not make us "tired" if it makes you feel worthless...Back off, sir. You deserve better. 💖

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