✨I’d rather be free than be loved at the cost of myself✨

In my personal journey toward understanding love and freedom, I reached a pivotal realization: true love never asks you to abandon yourself. Often, society romanticizes love as a bond that requires compromise, but when love becomes a cage that stifles your spirit, it’s no longer love—it’s a limitation. The deepest form of love I've ever known is my own freedom. This freedom objectively means honoring who I truly am, without shrinking to fit someone else’s expectations. Choosing freedom over being chosen felt daunting at first, but it was necessary for my spiritual growth and self-sovereignty. I’ve learned that abandoning yourself for love results in losing touch with your essence. Instead, embracing freedom allows for expansion—not just outwardly in life but inwardly in peace and creativity. When you free yourself, you open doors to becoming everything you were created to be, without fear. Walking alone in truth sometimes feels lonely, but it brings a profound peace and authenticity that no superficial adoration can match. The path of self-love is about choosing yourself every day; it's a commitment to your own growth and wellbeing. Freedom is not something given up for love; it is the foundation on which true love builds. Reflecting on this has taught me to seek relationships that honor my boundaries and encourage my growth. If love restricts you or asks you to shrink, it might be disguised as commitment but it’s not love. Freedom, peace, and expansion aren’t just ideals—they are essential aspects of a fulfilling life and authentic relationships. For anyone struggling with these feelings, remember: it’s courageous to prioritize yourself, to choose freedom first, and to live authentically. The journey might be challenging, but it leads to a richer and more meaningful experience of love—starting with the love you give yourself.