My ex-boyfriend's complaining now
I guess I should say 'complaining'.
I was with him when he was in his 20s.
I don't want to call myself an ex-boyfriend anymore.
When I was going to the house over there for a long distance,
Suddenly,
"XXX and XXX (a famous female voice actor) are already quite old, aren't they? It's dangerous soon, aren't they going to get married?"
I answered... "Oh, that's right" without really thinking.
If you think about it,
Hmm? What are you saying, this guy? Does that have anything to do with you? If you feel like it, you should get married, well, I won't be taken care of. I thought.
You're disgusting for saying that.
Also, when I said goodbye, I was told various things, but the most meaningless thing was that I didn't understand what it meant and said that I bought a car for you and it would be useless.
Certainly, I thought you wouldn't let me decide on various colors or something, but in the end, you're using it to go home, so it doesn't matter to me.
Also, I was told to come because I wanted you to come here on this day, and I couldn't do it because it was a part-time job, and if I said I was going on a different day, I was told that the store manager should do something about it.
Hmm, then you come back here. Why do I have to go there every time? It's troublesome.
Also, in the end, after a few years of saying goodbye, I got married and built a new house, so please come and visit me. It's good that you sent it to the members who used to play a lot, but I don't understand the meaning of sending it to me. I don't know if it's a broadcast or something, but I was able to notify you personally.
Are you stupid? You can't go, can you? Well, I want to meet a mutual acquaintance who I got along with for the first time in a long time, but who likes to go to the new house of the person I was with in the past? Moreover, I feel that the content was like please come to stay instead of playing with emails at that time
I knew it, he's a dangerous guy.
In the end, it was just a complaint, but it's been a few years, but I'm glad I got rid of it.
Sorry for your dirty eyes 🙇♀️
私も遠距離恋 愛経験があるので、この記事の内容にとても共感しました。遠距離はどうしてもすれ違いが生じやすくて、相手の言動に腹が立ったり困惑することが多いですよね。例えば、元カレが結婚の話を突然持ち出してくると、こちらは何の相談もなく心の準備もできていませんから戸惑ってしまいます。 また、遠距離恋愛中に「来てほしい」というわがままや無理なお願いをされると、仕事やバイトとの調整に苦労してストレスがたまります。私の場合も、彼が自分の都合だけを押し付けてくることが多く、自分の時間や気持ちが後回しにされた経験がありました。 さらに別れた後に車を買ったとか、結婚して新居ができたから遊びに来てほしいと突然連絡が来ると、正直言って心理的に重たく感じます。元恋人との関係は過去のものとして割り切りたいのに、そういった連絡を受けるとどう対応していいか迷いますね。 このようなモヤモヤした感情は誰にでもあることだと思いますし、誰かに吐き出すことで気持ちが軽くなるのも確かです。私も当時、友人に話を聞いてもらい気持ちの整理がつきました。この記事を読んでいる同じような経験をした人は、一人で抱え込まず、気持ちを言葉にしてみることをおすすめします。心のモヤモヤを解消する第一歩になるはずです。