Y’all… please tell me my mom has officially entered her delulu era because she really tried to convince me that “families don’t gather for holidays anymore.” 😭 Like girl… WHAT?!

So now I’m apparently spending Thanksgiving ALONE because I’m single with no kids and my parents decided to take their happy selves to freaking San Antonio. Meanwhile I’m over here looking like the abandoned middle child of 2024.

Be honest… do your families STILL get together for Thanksgiving or is my mom actually right?? Because I am determined to prove this woman wrong and I need the internet to help me win this argument 😂🦃

Drop a comment and tell me if YOUR family is gathering, traveling, skipping, or acting brand-new this year. I need receipts, opinions, stories… ALL OF IT.

Because her leaving me behind on Thanksgiving feels like a crime against humanity and I’m not going down without evidence. 💀💀💀

#thanksgiving #familyholidays #holidays #holidaycountdown #thanksgivingdinner

2025/11/19 Edited to

... Read moreIt's fascinating to see how Thanksgiving traditions are evolving today. Many people still cherish the time-honored custom of gathering with family or close friends to share a meal, express gratitude, and create lasting memories. However, increasing mobility, changes in family dynamics, and shifting social priorities have influenced how and if families come together. For some, the idea that 'nobody gathers for holidays anymore' feels like a harsh reality. Indeed, some families are choosing alternative celebrations or traveling separately, especially those separated by long distances or complex schedules. The trend of 'choosing your family' and prioritizing smaller, more intimate gatherings has become common, but traditional large family dinners remain very much alive for many. This means while your mom might be convinced that holiday gatherings are fading away, numerous families still host Thanksgiving meals with multiple generations under one roof. Some even revive old traditions or create new ones that suit modern lifestyles — like potlucks, virtual gatherings, or spreading celebrations across several days. If you’re feeling left out or like the 'abandoned middle child,' remember that many singles or young adults face similar experiences during holidays, especially if their parents travel or host separate celebrations. Engaging in community events, volunteering, or hosting a friendsgiving can provide meaningful alternatives and help build new memories. Ultimately, whether families gather for Thanksgiving depends on their unique circumstances. Hearing stories from others—traveling, skipping, or celebrating differently—can offer a fresh perspective and even inspire new traditions. So, keep collecting those receipts and stories from around the web; holiday bonding is alive in many forms, and many people are navigating this ever-changing holiday landscape too.

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