Releasing Control Before the New Week
Saturday night is where my need for control shows up. My urge to plan everything. To anticipate problems. To manage outcomes before they happen.
Tonight, I notice it without judgment.
I remind myself that control is often rooted in fear, not wisdom. God has never asked me to manage my life alone. He invites me to trust Him with the parts I cannot predict.
I loosen my grip. I let tomorrow be tomorrow.
Surrender doesn’t mean I stop caring. It means I stop carrying what was never mine to hold.
“Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him.” – Psalm 37:5
What am I trying to control that God is asking me to release?
Dee Bloomingmoore 🌺
Many of us feel an intense need to control our lives, especially as a new week approaches. This desire to plan every detail and anticipate potential problems can stem from underlying fears about the uncertain future. What I have found personally helpful is recognizing when this urge arises — often in quiet moments like Saturday night — and choosing to release that burden. One practical approach is to remind myself that control does not equate to security. Instead, security can come from trusting a greater plan or simply accepting that not everything is in my hands. Incorporating spiritual guidance, such as Psalm 37:5, "Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him," has helped me shift perspective from anxiety to calm confidence. Surrendering control is not about giving up or being passive; it means letting go of the stress associated with carrying things that were never mine to bear. It allows me to focus on what I can influence — my actions, my attitude, and my care — without exhausting energy trying to micromanage outcomes. In real life, I practice this by setting intentions rather than rigid plans on Sunday mornings. For example, instead of scheduling every hour, I decide what matters most and prioritize those activities without forcing exact timing. This flexibility reduces pressure and opens space for joy and creativity. Additionally, I find journaling helpful to identify what I am trying to control and consciously ask myself if it’s something I can truly manage. Many times, the answer is no. Acknowledging that and choosing to trust helps me cultivate peace and resilience. Ultimately, when I release control, I feel lighter and more ready to engage with the week’s challenges. It’s a continual process, but embracing trust over fear transforms how I navigate life’s unpredictability, making each new week a fresh opportunity rather than a source of stress.