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"Do you know" but "can't do it in time"? Very bad. How to fix it?

📌 know, but actually difficult to do...Is this terrible, Buddhist?

Not considered too bad, but not complete.

- Advantages: Having a proper opinion is called having a Sammatathi, knowing what is right and wrong, what should not be, knowing yourself is the right place to start.

- What is defective: Knowledge is still just a "theory," it does not become a "moral in the heart" when emotions are born, so it is easy to follow the same habits. Buddhism is considered normal for the beginning, not heavy sin, but if left unsolved, it becomes a difficult habit and self-suffering.

🛠️ How to solve it is done step by step.

Buddhism teaches that the transition from "leading emotion" to "leading consciousness" is gradually practiced, not too forced.

1.Practice observation first - just know that "emotion has come."

- As soon as you feel angry, sorry, want to talk hard, gently tell yourself, "Emotions are born right now."

- Don't stop. Don't blame yourself. Just knowingly create a distance between ourselves and our emotions.

- Main: Emotions are just things that happen and then extinguish, not ourselves. If not infused, it will fade on its own.

2. Use breath as accommodation - how to use it anywhere

When the mood is intense, pause, take a deep breath, go out a long time, 3-5 times.

- Allows the nervous system to calm down within seconds, reducing emotional power before doing anything wrong.

- If you can't, excuse yourself from the situation for a while before you go back.

3. Cultivate bit by bit - change from thought to habit.

- Forewarning: Before going to bed or early in the morning, briefly review: "If you find something unpleasant today, you will try to stop talking."

- Looking at the Blame of Emotional Use: Think of the Negative Consequences That Ever Happened - Spoil Relationships, Regret Later, Mind Unrest

- Practice a little patience: Let's start with the trivia, move on to the more difficult things, like exercise. Mind muscles need to gradually strengthen.

4. Reinforced with key principles

- Alas: The intense mood will fade. It won't last forever.

- Karma: Emotional actions have consequences. Suspension is the creation of good karma for yourself.

✅ Brief summary

Knowing but not doing it is not a serious mistake, but it is a point to practice like driving. At first, it is not very exciting to control. When practicing often, it is natural. Importantly, do not be discouraged. Getting emotionally conscious is the right first step.

# Dharma practice # Consciousness # Emotional # Speed of light # habituation

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