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Valuing doubt more than potential

Another piece of gold from “The Mountain is You” by Brianna Wiest

Wow! Anyone else find themselves honing in on the “bad things” we believe instead of finding all the little good things?!? ME TOO! Stop it! #inspiration #selfcare #selfhelp #selfhelpbooks #bebetter

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Negativity bias affects our perception, leading us to overlook the positive aspects of life while fixating on the negative. This bias stems from our evolutionary past, where survival depended on noticing threats. To combat this, it's essential to consciously shift our focus towards positive experiences. Start by practicing gratitude daily. Keeping a gratitude journal, where you note down at least three positive things that happened each day, can retrain your brain to notice the good around you. Another effective technique is mindfulness meditation. By being present and aware, you can observe your thoughts without judgment, reducing the power negative thoughts hold over you. Engaging in supportive communities, such as those found on Lemon8, can also reinforce positive thinking. Sharing uplifting stories and experiences helps create an environment where positivity flourishes. Moreover, reading inspirational books like 'The Mountain is You' provides valuable insights into transforming your mindset. Embrace self-awareness, challenge negative thoughts, and surround yourself with positivity to foster a brighter and more optimistic outlook on life. By taking these steps, you can shift the balance towards seeing the 'good things' more clearly, ultimately reclaiming your power over your thoughts.

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