Ep.2, year 1, college age, how to make friends

The Extrovert, he said, is very sociable, but it is better to approach others diplomatically!

1. The first seat technique

💺, when looking for a seat, look for a seat / table where there are one or two people sitting and say, "Sorry, is there someone sitting here? Can I sit?" Close the sentence with a smile, making us look friendly and courteous.

2. Be an open point person

🎉 open up positive issues, such as inviting a friend to eat or finding a cafe, inviting a library, getting a friend to participate in the selection, will also open up the opportunity to be closer.

3. Greetings with accurate memory

🗣️ If you get to know someone, try to remember his name so that the next time we will greet your friend by name immediately, will impress the other person with us, make us care about the other person as well.

4. As a bridge

🙋🏼‍♀️ to make new friends with similar preferences, let us introduce them to each other, so we can become the center of the group and enhance the intimacy of everyone.

5. Reinforce charm

💖 to enhance the charm of action and speech. Extrovert like us can greet first with a smile and show attention. And when talking to speak as a whole, rather than focusing on ourselves.

⚠️ Caution for The Golden Rule

• Pause & Listen: Be sure to pacing for some friends to say (especially fellow Introvert) Being a good listener will make you look a lot more attractive.

• Read the Room: Note your friend's gestures. If he seems tired from talking, step back a little to save your friend's Social Battery.

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