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How to Win Friendly and Motivate People | Dale Carnegie

Sometimes...

Someone anyone wants to be around.

Probably not the one who speaks the best.

But is the person who

"Understand other people's feelings."

📖 How to Win Friends and Influence People

A classic book that teaches that

Winning people is more important than winning reason.

10 Brief Thoughts

That actually applies to every relationship.

# HowToWinFriendsAndInfluencePeople # Psychology # Develop yourself # Book summary# Books to read

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