We had a nice intimate celebration for the kids. I have hesitated to bring my families traditions to my new family since I have made 4 covenants with the Catholic Church. I believe in our creator and I ask the Virgin Mary to watch over my woman and all the people that are pregnant BUT when it comes to the church….. it’s really complicated for me.
The church has hurt, divided and committed atrocities in the name of God. I have seen multiple religions come into my family and they’re all self absorbed at their core, “my church is the right one” or “my church can save you” is the sentiment. I will stay with what I know because I don’t need the church to feel connected to God, I’m not lost.
I’m giving my child the option of learning and get close to the Catholic Church but primarily our creator…. Whatever you want to call them.
How can someone who loves us so much and died for us be willing to set forth so much division? Nope, that’s man made. Religion should help us stay connected and not let us be such sour, hateful and judgmental people.
... Read moreWow, reading about your ranchito baptism really resonated with me! It’s so true how deeply personal faith can be, and how we all navigate our relationship with organized religion differently. Your desire to connect your child to the creator while allowing them to explore the Catholic Church really struck a chord. It got me thinking about how we can make these sacred 'baptism events' truly meaningful for our families, regardless of our specific church affiliation, or even if we choose a more intimate, home-based celebration.
For me, creating a memorable baptism event is all about weaving in personal touches and cultural traditions that speak to our family's unique journey. Like your beautiful celebration at the ranchito, it sounds like you embraced those elements. I've found that focusing on what baptism symbolizes for us – welcoming a child, dedicating them to a spiritual path, or simply celebrating their entrance into our community – helps guide the planning.
If you're thinking of a more personalized event, consider how you can incorporate elements that are meaningful to your heritage, just like the images of the little ones in their white mariachi suit and traditional dress with silver embroidery suggest. For many Latin American families, a bilingual ceremony, special music, or traditional foods can really make the day shine. I remember attending a baptism where they had a beautifully decorated table with a white cross decoration as the centerpiece, and it just felt so personal and heartfelt.
Another aspect that often comes up is how to keep the little ones engaged and happy during the celebration! Seeing "Nuestra Bautizo Jade & Santos" in the mirror with an inflatable castle in the background is such a brilliant idea. Kids need space to be kids, and having some fun activities, even if it's just a designated play area, can make a huge difference for everyone. It shows that while the spiritual aspect is central, the celebration is also about joy and family togetherness.
Planning an 'intimate baptism event' at home or a special venue can be incredibly rewarding. Think about who you want to share this moment with – sometimes a smaller, more curated guest list allows for deeper connections. You can still have all the traditional elements, like godparents, special readings, and blessings, but tailor them to reflect your family's values. For instance, instead of standard hymns, you might choose songs that have personal significance.
Ultimately, whether you're grappling with complex feelings about the church, or simply planning a joyous welcome for your little one, the heart of any 'baptism event' is the love and intention you pour into it. It's a chance to gather your loved ones, share your hopes for the child, and create beautiful memories that honor your unique family story. What are some unique traditions or personal touches you’ve seen at baptisms?
I love this!!! God doesn’t want his people divided .. it’s the evil one. One lady said the devils lies are would’ve , could’ve, and should’ve. And we are the beloved children of the most high and I even remember one priest saying that God never fails on his word and if we doubt does that mean that God is a liar? And he’s not even though we always place our expectations on people and unfortunately they will ALWAYS disappoint us. God will have you in the correct place at the correct time. I know exactly what you mean 🙏🏻🙏🏻🌷🤗🤗
I love this!!! God doesn’t want his people divided .. it’s the evil one. One lady said the devils lies are would’ve , could’ve, and should’ve. And we are the beloved children of the most high and I even remember one priest saying that God never fails on his word and if we doubt does that mean that God is a liar? And he’s not even though we always place our expectations on people and unfortunately they will ALWAYS disappoint us. God will have you in the correct place at the correct time. I know exactly what you mean 🙏🏻🙏🏻🌷🤗🤗