Why do I abhor winter but live in New England 😭
Not gonna lie, I absolutely dread winter. It's a sentiment many New Englanders who don't embrace the snow sports silently (or loudly!) share. So, why do I, someone who truly hates winter, live in New England? It's the question I ask myself every year, usually around mid-February when the grey skies seem to last forever and another storm is on the horizon. It feels like I #livesinthewrongclimate, but here I am. The reality of living in New England during winter when you're not a fan is a unique challenge. It's not just the cold – it's the persistent cold, the kind that seeps into your bones no matter how many layers you pile on. Then there's the snow. Oh, the snow! While a fresh blanket can be beautiful for about five minutes, the reality is endless shoveling, treacherous driving conditions, and the constant battle against slush and ice. My car becomes a permanent block of ice, and the daily commute turns into an Olympic event. Beyond the physical discomfort, there's the mental toll. The short, dark days can be incredibly draining, often leading to a serious case of cabin fever. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a very real struggle for many, and I find myself craving sunlight and warmth like nothing else. My apartment transforms into a cozy, albeit sometimes claustrophobic, sanctuary filled with blankets, hot cocoa, and an endless stream of streaming services. Investing in a good light therapy lamp has been a game-changer, and I practically mainline Vitamin D supplements from November to April. Despite all this, there's a reason many of us winter-haters stick around. Perhaps it's family, a job we love, or the undeniable charm of the other three seasons. The crisp autumns, vibrant springs, and sunny summers here are truly spectacular, almost making you forget the icy grip of winter. Almost. For now, my coping strategy involves planning a warm getaway, dreaming of the first daffodil, and commiserating with fellow winter-weary souls online. If you're also living in New England and secretly (or openly) wishing for spring, just know you're not alone in your struggle against the endless winter.
