stop acting like you don't see me

Living with a disability often means people notice the wheelchair before they notice me, which can be frustrating. From my personal experience, I’ve realized that many people tend to either pity or overly praise individuals with disabilities, rather than see them as complete human beings with diverse identities. My wheelchair is a part of my life but it does not define who I am. I’ve learned to advocate for myself by encouraging others to ask instead of assume. When people ask genuine questions without sympathy, it creates opportunities for real conversations and mutual understanding. It’s important to communicate that I do not want to be seen as incapable or less because I use a wheelchair. Being labeled as "disabled" should come with respect and acknowledgment of my strengths. I identify more with being a strong woman who navigates challenges daily rather than someone to be pitied. I encourage everyone to look deeper than appearances and realize that a wheelchair is just a tool for mobility — not an identity. Sharing my story and experiences helps break stereotypes and promotes inclusivity. It’s empowering to contribute to a world where people are recognized for their individuality and capabilities. If you ever feel overlooked or misunderstood because of a difference, remember your worth is beyond any external perception or device.