Become an unwitting "barred from the group" child.😞

Mom, this book is finished and feels like someone has come to "open the real world" for us in a soft but clear way. 🥺

* * "When the world is not kind, you have to teach your children social skills." * *

It's a book that doesn't just say, "You have to have friends."

But take us deeper than that...

👉 * Why is it important to have friends?

👉 * Why * Some Children Can't Get Along With Others

👉 and long-term outcomes.

What makes this volume different from other volumes is

The content comes entirely from the "real case of a child psychiatrist."

So we didn't just read ideas.

But it's like listening to a lot of kids who are "trying to live in a real world."

Some cases are very normal-looking children. Studying is okay.

But no friends... do not understand other people's jokes...

Don't know when to say anything

The last became an unwitting "barred from the group" child.

Some cases are heavier than that.

Is starting to not want to go to school

Avoid meeting people

Because every time it takes to socialize = stress.

Read it and it makes us realize that

"Social skills" is not really a small thing.

📌 The book clearly explains that

Children who lack social skills often have problems:

* Reading other people's emotions (not knowing how the other person feels)

* Communication (over-speaking / dare not speak / out of rhythm)

* Self-emotional control (easy to anger, bend, or suppress)

* Solving time with friends

These things are not taught in the classroom.

But it's something that "takes every day of my whole life."

Another point I like very much is

Books don't blame children at all.

But inviting parents to understand

👉 Children are not "bad."

But he just "doesn't have the skills yet."

And these skills... practiced.

But must "intentionally train" and "train to the rhythm of age."

The book also talks about a relatively strong but very real long-term effect.

Children without social skills

There will be opportunities:

* Feel yourself worthless

* Not acceptable in the group

* Cumulative stress occurs

* And some cases may develop into psychological problems.

Which I read, it's not fear.

But it's the "alarm" that makes us look at our children faster.

💡 The obvious thing from this book is

* Social skills = Soft skills as important as IQ

* Playing, talking, having friends is a "life training field."

* Meeting real people is more important than online.

* And parents are your child's "first coach" on this.

Finish reading and we'll start asking ourselves,

Today, our children "practice living with others enough?"

Or we are accidentally giving the screen a friend instead of a real person

💛 I personally feel that this volume is not stressful.

But it makes it more "awake to know."

It doesn't tell us to be perfect parents.

But just a start... from today.

Because in the end

The outside world may not always be kind to our children.

But if he "understands people" and "understands himself" enough,

He'll handle that world really better.

This book is very suitable for mothers who

Focusing on studying

Or wondering, "Why don't you have friends?"

Or even a house where you look quiet, not social.

Read it and understand you more like you feel it. 🤍

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