Growing up I always wanted to be a forensic anthropologist. That was up until probably 12th grade. I watched Bones and fell in love with Brennan and that’s who I wanted to be for as long as I could remember. I prepped for the longest took whatever classes my high school had to offer for the role. But I didn’t follow through.
And for cosmetology. I love hair, I love makeup, nails, lashes, esthetics! I love feeling pretty and making others feel the way too. I had kids I was too worried about friends, and boyfriends to care about what I did with my life. I’m 23 now and I wish I would’ve. But now I feel like it’s too late. 😔 anthropolgy will always be in my heart! ❤️ cosmetology will always be in my blood!
... Read moreIt’s funny how certain career paths just call to you, almost painting a picture in your mind of what life could be like. For me, that vivid image was always wrapped up in the forensics aesthetic. I wasn't just drawn to the idea of uncovering secrets; I was captivated by the forensic scientist aesthetic itself. I imagined myself in a crisp lab coat, meticulously examining bones under a bright light, or perhaps in a lab setting, surrounded by complex instruments, piecing together clues like fingerprints or even deciphering computer code to catch a criminal.
The forensic anthropology aesthetic in particular held a specific kind of allure – the blend of history, science, and the quiet intensity of bringing a story back to life. It felt like a noble pursuit, a career steeped in intellectual challenge and a deep sense of purpose. Shows like 'Bones' definitely amplified this forensic science aesthetic, making the intricate work seem both thrilling and deeply satisfying. There’s a certain forensic aesthetic to the precision, the methodical approach, and the sheer dedication required, isn't there? It’s not just about the science; it’s about the whole vibe of intellectual curiosity and the pursuit of truth.
But then there's the other side of my heart, where the cosmetology aesthetic thrives. While my head was deep in ancient bones, my heart was always fluttering for the vibrant world of beauty. I swear, the smell of hairspray and nail polish still gives me a little thrill! I love the artistry of cutting and styling hair, the magic of applying makeup to enhance someone's natural beauty, the transformation that comes from coloring hair, or the delicate precision of eyelash extensions. It’s a completely different kind of aesthetic, but equally powerful.
The cosmetology aesthetic is all about creativity, human connection, and making people feel absolutely fantastic. Imagine a bustling salon, filled with laughter and chatter, where every day is a chance to sculpt, color, and create. It’s about being an artist with a brush, a comb, or a pair of scissors, seeing the immediate joy you bring to someone. Both career paths, though seemingly opposite, share a common thread for me: the desire to create, to transform, and to find meaning in detailed work.
At 23, feeling like "it's too late" is a heavy thought. But perhaps the real aesthetic isn't just about the job itself, but the journey of discovering what truly ignites your passion. Even if I don't become a full-time forensic anthropologist or cosmetologist, I can still embrace the forensic aesthetic through learning and reading, and the cosmetology aesthetic through personal expression and making my friends feel beautiful. Maybe it's never too late to incorporate these dream aesthetics into our lives, in ways big or small. What do you think? Have you ever felt drawn to a career's 'vibe' that you didn't pursue?