ive been a foster kid since i was 14 months old, after i graduated from the nicu.

ive been in over 200 homes, a ton of group homes, etc by the time i was 6. i had NO good home until my mom took me in when i was 6.

and a week ago (tomorrow) i got adopted.

we just got a call from the court and the state, and im no longer a ward of the state. im no longer a foster kid, but everyone knows ill still feel like one and be treated like one from everyone around me.

but FUCKING finally, because my first adoption when i was 7, they still saw me as a foster kid, but im no longer one and im over the moon about it, because i have been waiting YEARS to get out of the system, even tho i always said i didnt need to be adopted, because i didnt need a piece of paper proving i was their daughter.

celebration is tonight!!

✨🩷

2025/12/9 Edited to

... Read moreBeing adopted after so many years in the foster care system can bring an overwhelming mix of emotions. While the legal change officially marks a new chapter, many adoptees still face feelings of identity conflict and the challenge of adjusting to their new status. It’s common for someone to feel they are still a 'foster kid' in the eyes of others, even when the formal process has ended. This duality reflects the deep impact of early life experiences and the bonds formed over many years. Adoption as an official act isn’t just about paperwork—it symbolizes acceptance, stability, and a chosen family connection. However, the emotional significance can vary. For some, like in this story, the legal recognition feels monumental despite previously believing a certificate wouldn’t change their family bonds. It highlights how legal and emotional aspects of adoption intersect but do not always resolve every challenge. Supporting those who have endured multiple placements and group homes involves patience and understanding that their history shapes who they are. Celebrating adoption milestones with ceremonies or gatherings, as mentioned, can foster positive reinforcement and community support, helping adoptees embrace their identities fully. The mention of @DOLLIIBLOSSOM in the image OCR suggests connections or inspirations from social or creative communities that can often provide additional support and understanding for those with foster care backgrounds. Sharing stories candidly, as here, encourages awareness about foster care systems and mental health, emphasizing the importance of empathy, inclusion, and ongoing support for adoptees at every stage of their journey.

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congrats you deserve it.

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