Stop Accepting the Bare Minimum ✨
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Read this if you had to beg for the bare minimum
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Knowing your worth changes everything.You stop acc
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Stop Romanticizing the Bare Minimum
Sometimes the bare minimum feels special because it came from someone you wanted. But effort isn’t romantic. Consistency is. Lover girls can be soft and have standards. Both can exist 🤍 — the lover girl mentor #LoverGirlEnergy #DatingAdviceForWomen #AskLemon8 #TheLoverGirl
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