MITL OF A 22 YR OLD MOM OF 2🌸

Being a 22-year-old SAHM of two is definitely a unique journey, and honestly, it’s not always glamorous, but it’s incredibly rewarding. When I first started this ‘My Life’ (MITL) chapter, I often wondered if I was doing things right, or if other young moms felt the same way. So, I wanted to share a deeper dive into what my day-to-day really looks like, hoping it resonates with someone out there. This is my reality as a 22 yr old SAHM of 2. Mornings in our house usually kick off around 6:00 AM, sometimes earlier if a little one decides the sun is up! My 3-year-old and 1-year-old have their own internal alarm clocks. First on the agenda is getting everyone fed and changed. I try to make breakfast a calm affair, even if it means toast crumbs everywhere. After that, it’s usually playtime, where I try to engage them with activities that stimulate their minds – building blocks, drawing, or reading books. It’s a constant juggle to keep both entertained simultaneously, especially with their different age-appropriate needs! Mid-day often involves errands or a trip to the park to burn off some energy. I’ve learned that fresh air is a game-changer for everyone’s mood. Lunch follows, and then, if I’m lucky, nap time for both! This is my golden hour. Sometimes I use it to catch up on chores, but more often, it’s my moment to recharge with a cup of coffee and just… exist. Self-care as a young SAHM is crucial, even if it's just 30 minutes of quiet. Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup! The afternoons are usually a mix of more play, snack time, and preparing for dinner. Getting dinner on the table with two little helpers (or hinderers!) can be an Olympic sport. We aim for family dinner every night, as it’s a precious time to connect and share about our day. Bath time and bedtime routines close out the day, and by the time they’re both tucked in, it’s usually 8:00 PM, and I'm ready to collapse! One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced as a 22-year-old SAHM is the feeling of isolation. It can be tough to connect with friends who are at different life stages, or to maintain a social life outside the home. My advice? Seek out local mom groups or online communities. Finding other moms, especially other young moms of two, who understand the specific struggles and joys makes a huge difference. Don't be afraid to reach out for support or just for a chat. Another key thing I’ve learned is to be flexible. Routines are great, but kids are unpredictable, and sometimes you just have to go with the flow. Don't beat yourself up if the day doesn't go exactly as planned. Celebrate the small wins, cherish the cuddles, and remember you’re doing an amazing job!