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The abandonment of color, the non-attachment to ignorant rituals or practices.

🧡 is the practice of not sticking to ignorant rituals or practices, understanding that those rituals or practices are just tools of mind training, not their ultimate purpose.

Practices to color pramas include:

1. Understand the principles of Buddhism and the aims of Dharma practice

2. Study the book of teachings deeply to understand the true meaning of the practice.

3. Keep the precepts with understanding and awareness of the benefits of keeping the precepts, not following tradition or fear.

4. Train the mind to be calm and conscious in the practice of justice.

5. Critically consider the harmful effects of righteousness, not adhering to rituals or ignorance.

Practicing the truth with understanding and realizing the true aims will enable us to renounce the colors and achieve true disengagement.

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🧡 Tattooing can be done by practicing the observation that the body and thought are only natural processes that circulate according to factors, such as anger, and then extinguish itself without our command, so that there is no "constant self" in it.

This can be done as follows:

1. Practice base 4 stipat to understand the impermanence of body and mind.

2. Consider eunuchs 5 to see that bodies and ideas are only a group of eunuchs working together.

3. Practice awareness and acceptance of changes of body and mind.

4. Reduce adherence to self-identity and opinions.

Regular practice and mental training will allow one to leave the body.

# Monk's day # Color difference

# Not sticking to ignorant rituals or practices # Mind training

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