Strengthening/MaintainingFriendships Tips?

I genuinely seem to lack object permanence when it comes to people. I struggle to maintain friendships when I don’t seem them in person. I hate texting (I’m not necessarily bad at it, its just boring and not the same as talking). I also never use most social media platforms either.

I have no problem hanging out with people after not seeing/talking to them for a long time, but I know most people don’t feel the same. Does anyone have tips for maintaining friendships over long distances/time zones?

Similarly, I also struggle to let people get close to me and strengthen friendships or possibly turn them romantic. I am so defensive with so many walls up its crazy. I really do want close connections but I physically cannot also myself 😝.

Does anyone have the same issues or any advice for getting past this? I’ve also used some dating apps but hate messaging people (like texting).

#relationship #friendship #letschat #have genuine friendships #longdistance

2024/7/19 Edited to

... Read moreMaintaining friendships can be particularly challenging, especially when distance and personal barriers come into play. Many people experience difficulties with long-distance friendships and often wonder how to foster meaningful connections despite being apart. One of the key strategies to strengthen relationships is regular communication. While texting may feel impersonal, consider alternative methods like video calls, voice messages, or even handwritten letters. These personal touches can make a significant difference and help maintain closeness. Joining clubs or communities that match your interests can help bridge the gaps in your friendships too. Engage in online activities or events with friends, such as watching movies or playing games together. This can create a shared experience and bring friends closer, even from afar. Remember to be open about your feelings. If you struggle with intimacy or vulnerability, communicating these feelings to your friends can encourage understanding and support. Many people share similar concerns and worries, so voicing your thoughts can foster deeper connections. In addition, looking into local gatherings or meetups when you visit a friend's area can be enriching for maintaining those bonds. Each visit can turn into a cherished memory and strengthen the friendship. Ultimately, the effort invested in maintaining friendships is what truly counts. With sincerity and creativity, you can keep your friendships vibrant despite the physical distance.

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