Where do I even start?
If you read my little diary post from yesterday you’ll know that staying with the father of my children is just not an option. Him and I do not get along majority of the time. And to be honest I think he stays for the kids. Where was me I could never stay with someone just because we have children together.
I have a son who will be 5 in a couple weeks, and I’m also 10 weeks pregnant. I’m a SAHM with nothing of my own, no money, no car, nothing!!!! I understand that in order to get out I need a job and I’m okay getting a job. However daycare will take 90% if not more of my paycheck so at the end of the day what is the point in that.
I have no family to help, and his family just sides with him no matter what. I want out before this baby comes (late December) however I do understand if it takes longer…
I just need a happier environment for not only my kids but myself. They deserve to see both mommy and daddy happy and living life to the fullest. Which him and I don’t do for each other.
HELP!!!!!
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Hey love if you get a data entry job that has limited need for phone calls, you can keep your babies home with you and get government assistance for preschool so it will be cheap (CCIS)! Wishing you the best of luck on your journey.. many have done it before you so it is possible to be successful!