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Where do I even start?

If you read my little diary post from yesterday you’ll know that staying with the father of my children is just not an option. Him and I do not get along majority of the time. And to be honest I think he stays for the kids. Where was me I could never stay with someone just because we have children together.

I have a son who will be 5 in a couple weeks, and I’m also 10 weeks pregnant. I’m a SAHM with nothing of my own, no money, no car, nothing!!!! I understand that in order to get out I need a job and I’m okay getting a job. However daycare will take 90% if not more of my paycheck so at the end of the day what is the point in that.

I have no family to help, and his family just sides with him no matter what. I want out before this baby comes (late December) however I do understand if it takes longer…

I just need a happier environment for not only my kids but myself. They deserve to see both mommy and daddy happy and living life to the fullest. Which him and I don’t do for each other.

HELP!!!!!

#worriedmom #toxicrelationship #singlemom #startingover #momstartingover #momsoflemon8

2024/6/12 Edited to

Starting over as a single mother can be overwhelming, especially when faced with financial constraints and emotional challenges. Many women in similar situations find it crucial to prioritize mental health while seeking employment. Joining community support groups online or in-person can provide valuable advice and companionship. Additionally, some local organizations offer temporary childcare solutions to ease the burden of daycare costs while you work. Consider polishing your resume and applying for jobs that offer flexibility, such as remote work or part-time positions. This can alleviate the worry of daycare expenses consuming your paycheck. It's also beneficial to seek advice from financial planners who specialize in working with single parents to ensure that every dollar counts. Most importantly, remember that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Whether through friends, support groups, or professional counseling, connecting with others who understand your journey can provide insight and encouragement. Striving for a positive environment for your kids starts with fostering your well-being. Making informed decisions today can lead to a brighter, more fulfilling future tomorrow.

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So get a job and save up. Best of luck until you can

Hey love if you get a data entry job that has limited need for phone calls, you can keep your babies home with you and get government assistance for preschool so it will be cheap (CCIS)! Wishing you the best of luck on your journey.. many have done it before you so it is possible to be successful!

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