How to live a real single life?
Hello, 🙏🏻 today is in the mood to update your life. And in case it may encourage many friends who are going through these events, we will tell you what we learned after living single for a while. 💕✨
Personally, we have almost never lived a single life since high school, always in love until college, which is to say that since childhood, we have been very happy about giving someone our whole world 🌍, and it seems that the world will collapse every time a breakup occurs 💔 (but for a short time, people will come in and loop around indefinitely, because at that age we have not learned how to love ourselves).
The reason why we are ourselves today is that we decided to end our last relationship and the longest relationship in our lives (almost 4 years) after we returned to single status. The first period is the symptoms of a person who is not willing to eat, not wanting to eat, coinciding with that first COVID, everything, so he came in, like lifting strength, crying, crying, sad every day, work, not doing, doing everything that he wants to come back, thinking of ending his life many times, planning everything because he wants to go unburdened by anyone until the weight. It is a very difficult time for us, which has a lot of details, and we decided to play dating apps for the first time. The purpose is to forget the old love, but try to date a few times, still do not meet anyone who can make you forget the old person (when you try to do something new, meet the most new people in your life, have reached the 4-day vacation, try to date or eat with 5-6 new people next to each other, and finally realize that we do not need to replace anyone because the person we should love and always be next to us is ourselves, hahahaha)
The real turning point that made us come back to love ourselves was the incident of crying on the train. We had to hang around while we were on the train. When we reached our destination, we quickly called the person we trusted and should understand us the most at that time to listen. We cried. That day, he told us about how to keep living. Think of it as a way to wait for him to come back. From at least to death, it was a chance to get back together. But from death is a 0 chance. Now we have lost him. But we do not lose work or money. At least we come back to work to make money to wait a day in the future for him to come back and we are ready to support him. Is it better than us to become a person with nothing? Work is not done. Money is not there. / We at that time were to live with real hope. Because it is not ready to move, to consult or vent to anyone. Is to say that do not speak the truth, to comfort, to encourage, to spoil at all. However, he must come back, to make us fresh up. Actually, thanks in part to the encouragement of everyone around us, to watch, to talk, spoil, and to be beside, to make us better today. 💕🙏🏻
What we learned after that is that as we become more and more self-conscious, try to meet new people, we know more and more about what kind of relationship we want, what kind of person we want or what kind of person we want, what we want, what we want, what we want, what we want to eat, what we want to eat, we are ready to cut immediately, it's like a trick to protect ourselves, and we try to hang out every month, go to new places, go alone, have some friends, walk new paths, try something we want to do or never do, try something we want to eat, try something we want to eat, try new menus when we go to a restaurant, choose Listen to anything that is positive energy (even before succulent horoscope) and avoid finding negative energy, study more and more, really spend time with ourselves and make us discover many things, such as discovering that we are a person who likes to walk around. This feels like a kind of mind therapy and looks free 🚶🏻♂️ or discover a new style of dress. The style that is most suitable for us right now 🧢🩳👕, get to know and meet new friends or people 😎 (because if you have a girlfriend, you can't do this), and the most important thing is to discover that we are happy with ourselves. Very much now and become a person who loves and respects himself (today, look in the mirror and watch yourself every day, hahahahaha. Whoever is crazy or narcissistic is not interested or very thoughtful because we really live for ourselves)
When we look back at ourselves in the past, we feel very proud of ourselves and very surprised in many things that we never thought we could get to this point of happiness and love ourselves after we always loved others before ourselves.
As for the new relationship that may happen, we never block or shut down our chances, hahahahaha. But we will have our standards set (listed in over 30 notes 🤣). If coming in is to make us happier than before. If coming in and making us feel better alone, we would rather be alone than 😂😂😂 for the first time in 25 years to understand what it is like to love ourselves before loving others. What it is like to be happy with ourselves. 💖🏝️
Finally,
"What happens is always good."
Thank you and encourage everyone. 💖🙏🏻