Three things to stop talking if you don't want the charm to diminish.

1. Stop saying "can't do it / isn't good" before you start.

Many people like to say, "We're not very good at this," or "Sorry if you don't do well" to lower expectations, but to do this is to break down the confidence that others have in you since you started.

• Change to: Do not have to make a negative act fully. If you are stuck, you will say "learning to fill in this part" or "Thank you for giving the opportunity to try" will look more curious and confident.

2. Stop saying "People like us can't do it."

Comparing ourselves to others in an inferior way, such as "We are just ordinary people, how to fight them" or "Fortunately, you are good, and we have no merit like that." These words are to hypnotize ourselves to look smaller and smaller in the eyes of those around us.

• Change to: Change from insulting yourself to appreciating other people's efforts, such as "Seeing your success is very inspiring." This will make you look generous and classy.

3. Stop using the word "fluke" or "just luck." Time is successful.

When you do something well and are watched, saying it's a coincidence or a lucky thing is to dismiss your efforts and make people feel that you have no real potential.

• Change to: Accept that success with a good sense of pride, such as "Thank you very much, really focused on this work. When this results, it will disappear."

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