Automatically translated.View original post

# Technically speaking

18 Good techniques, good words, even if not good at speaking

.

.

.

1. Start from speaking slowly but clearly

People who do not speak well often hurry because of fear of losing their rhythm, but the more hurry

Try to speak slower, focus clearly on every word, will look more confident immediately

2. Look at the eyes of the audience but do not stare

Warm eyes are the bridge of the heart. Looking at the rhythm as when talking.

With friends will help people feel that we are sincere and listening.

3. Practice telling small stories in everyday life

Let's start with something simple, like a good day or a joke.

In the workplace, the more often the brain organizes words.

4. Listen more than speak and answer with weight.

Sometimes the best words are those that are thought before speaking.

People don't speak well but listen well. Always listen to people.

5. Always smile before starting to speak

Smile is the most beautiful sound in the world. It makes

Our words are softer, even that sentence is only one word short.

6. Use simple words that are immediately understandable.

No need to find beautiful words. Just be outspoken and honest.

People will remember us as people who speak and know about

7. Stop breathing before answering

When someone asks, don't hurry and answer. Stop for a second.

To compose the words, this seems a lot more discreet.

8. Practice speaking in front of the mirror or recording yourself

It may seem shy, but it works very well, because you can see both your posture and your tone and adjust it naturally.

9. Pay attention to the tone of the mood.

The same word if the tone is different, the feeling changes.

Try talking in a gentle voice, like talking to an important person.

10. Admit that excitement is not wrong.

Even if you're shaking, cold hands, it's okay, because people understand.

We all start with the same fear.

11. Speak from sincerity, not to look good.

People who speak poorly but speak from the heart are often more powerful than people who speak fluently.

But there's no sincerity.

12. Use tangible examples instead of floating speech.

Instead of saying you should try, say it like we did.

Fell and got up again. It reached the heart more.

13. Don't talk a lot. Just talk worthwhile.

Some people say a few words but keep the whole room quiet.

Because the words are meaningful.

14. Look at speaking as sharing, not acting.

When you see that you are sharing good things with other people, your senses disappear, leaving only your intentions.

15. Start with a small group before a large group.

Practice speaking to a friend or team member first when speaking up.

In front of a lot of people will be a lot more confident.

16. Ask questions during speaking

Like, have you ever felt like this or have you ever been like this?

It makes people feel involved, and we can breathe.

17. Accept mistakes with a smile

Wrong words laugh. Because humanity is charm.

That no one can copy

18. Always end with warmth.

No matter what you say, it ends up making people feel good, like thank you for listening.

Or glad to share it. That's ten times more pleasant.

# Develop yourself

# Technically speaking

# Communicate confidently

# Practice speaking everyday

2025/11/6 Edited to

... Read moreการพูดเป็นทักษะที่หลายคนอาจรู้สึกกังวลโดยเฉพาะผู้ที่คิดว่าตัวเองพูดไม่เก่ง แต่จริง ๆ แล้ว ทุกคนสามารถพัฒนาการพูดให้ดีขึ้นได้โดยใช้เทคนิคง่าย ๆ ดังที่ได้แนะนำไว้ในบทความนี้ เช่น เริ่มต้นด้วยการพูดช้าและชัดเจน ช่วยให้การสื่อสารมีประสิทธิภาพและฟังเข้าใจง่ายขึ้น อีกทั้งการฝึกมองตาผู้ฟังในลักษณะที่เป็นมิตรไม่จ้องจนเกินไป จะช่วยสร้างความเชื่อถือและความจริงใจ ให้คนฟังรู้สึกอบอุ่นและผ่อนคลาย นอกจากนั้น การฝึกเล่าเรื่องประจำวันเล็ก ๆ น้อย ๆ หรือเรื่องตลกในที่ทำงาน จะช่วยเพิ่มความคุ้นเคยต่อการพูด และสร้างความมั่นใจในตัวเองเมื่อขึ้นพูดต่อหน้าผู้คนมากขึ้น การฟังอย่างตั้งใจและตอบคำถามด้วยความคิดที่รอบคอบ จะนำมาซึ่งคำพูดที่มีน้ำหนักและสร้างความประทับใจได้มากกว่า นอกจากนี้ คำพูดที่แสดงออกจากความรู้สึกจริงใจ จะทำให้ผู้ฟังรับรู้ถึงพลังและความตั้งใจที่แท้จริงของเรา อย่าลืมว่าน้ำเสียงและรอยยิ้มเป็นส่วนสำคัญที่ทำให้คำพูดดูนุ่มนวลขึ้นและมีเสน่ห์มากขึ้น ลองซ้อมพูดหน้ากระจกหรืออัดเสียงตัวเองดูเพื่อปรับปรุงท่าทางและน้ำเสียงให้เป็นธรรมชาติและเหมาะสมกับสถานการณ์จริง การยอมรับความตื่นเต้นและความผิดพลาดได้อย่างสง่างาม จะช่วยลดความเกร็งและเพิ่มเสน่ห์ที่เป็นธรรมชาติในการพูดได้อย่างมาก การมองว่าการพูดคือการแบ่งปันความคิดและเรื่องราวดี ๆ แทนการแสดง จะช่วยให้เรารู้สึกผ่อนคลายและมุ่งเน้นที่การสื่อสารอย่างจริงใจมากขึ้น การเริ่มต้นพูดกับกลุ่มเล็ก ๆ ก่อน เมื่อเวลาผ่านไปจะช่วยสร้างความมั่นใจในการพูดต่อหน้ากลุ่มใหญ่ สุดท้าย การจบการพูดด้วยความอบอุ่น เช่น การขอบคุณผู้ฟัง หรือแสดงความดีใจที่ได้แบ่งปันเรื่องราว จะทิ้งความประทับใจที่ดีและทำให้ผู้ฟังรู้สึกอยากฟังเรามากขึ้น ลองนำเทคนิคเหล่านี้ไปใช้ฝึกฝนอย่างสม่ำเสมอเพื่อผลลัพธ์ที่ยั่งยืน แค่ปรับเปลี่ยนเล็กน้อยก็ช่วยให้การพูดของคุณโดดเด่นและน่าฟังกว่าที่เคย

Related posts

Why being “skinny fat” is so mentally draining
YOUR NOT ALONE! No one talks about it because you’re technically skinny. Many people, including me, have “skinny fat” bodies and they are perfectly healthy. As long as you are happy and healthy. But it’s good to know there is community of people that feel skinny fat too! And we need to support ea
Riley

Riley

6434 likes

🗣️ 30-Day Speaking Improvement Plan‼️
Hi everyone, good evening! 🌃 Time flies, and it's already October! 📅 The semester is halfway through—have you been studying⁉️ Join me in challenging yourself with this 30-day plan to improve your English speaking skills! 🌟🚀 #tips #language #languagelearning #tipslemon8 #studytips
Juliette✨

Juliette✨

177 likes

No More Awkward Speaking Moments with These Tips!
Have you ever had moments where you knew exactly what you wanted to say but froze the moment you opened your mouth? Or maybe you finished speaking, only to see a puzzled look on the other person’s face? Good news: expressing yourself clearly and confidently is a skill you can develop! Here are some
Chloe✨

Chloe✨

506 likes

A collage displays four different body oils, including a moisturizing mist, a light sesame formula, a spray moisturizer, and a daily hydration oil, highlighted as affordable options for constant use.
A hand holds a fragrance-free and hypoallergenic moisturizing body oil mist, suitable for sensitive skin, which is described as non-greasy and effective for daily use.
A hand holds a light sesame formula body oil, praised for making skin feel smooth and soft, used as a daily essential for moisturizing the body.
My Favorite Affordable Body Oils 😍
My favorite body oils that I have been using for years or started within the year. That I use daily. For dry skin: Bio-Oil: This oil is known for its ability to improve the appearance of scars and stretch marks, and it's also effective at hydrating dry skin. Neutrogena Body Oil Light
Ty 😍✨✌🏽

Ty 😍✨✌🏽

1598 likes

Public speaking tips! 🎙️
🎤 Mastering public speaking is a perfect example of turning a challenging task into a rewarding experience. By focusing on the process — you shift your mindset from fearing the spotlight to embracing the opportunity for growth. BONUS TIP: Pairing your speech preparation with activities you enjo
teal.days

teal.days

67 likes

A cute rom-com novella
This was a audio novella that popped up on my feed and I ran to listen. It’s such a cute rom-com and I wish it was a full book. Vee and Troy’s journey is simply adorable and Oz is the sweetest. Definitely great to listen to during your day if you want a quick read. #bookreview #technicallys
Simone Umba

Simone Umba

20 likes

Fix your form - hip abduction machine!
💭But can you sit upright during a seated hip abduction? Sure you can! It’s not technically ‘wrong’ but let’s breakdown why it’s not recommended week after week! In an upright seated position, you will get ✨some✨ glute medius activation which we love, but this will also activate the piriform
Kylie B

Kylie B

201 likes

🔥 Drinks That Won’t Break Your Fast 🔥 Fasting is an incredible tool for fat loss, digestion, and overall health, but drinking the wrong thing can accidentally break your fast. Here’s why these drinks are safe: ✅ Water 💦 – Hydration is key! Water keeps your body functioning properly without af
A+ Fitness

A+ Fitness

1215 likes

VIRAL EGG BOIL!!
Finally tried the viral Egg Boil !!! Well technically this is my 3rd time trying a different recipes with some additions here and there! Ingredients: 4 Boiled Eggs 🥚 (Boiled mine for 7 min since I like the yolk a bit runny) 1/2 Stick Butter 1/4 white onion (which you will sauté) Fresh
Cindy✨🧿🌺

Cindy✨🧿🌺

2240 likes

7 tips to improve your public speaking at work
Hello everyone! I wanted to share essential techniques for presenting with confidence! These tips helped me to overcome my fear of public speaking and do better in my presentations :) Practice regularly, know your audience, and use visual aids to engage them. Also, use confident body language and m
Yun Jung

Yun Jung

9 likes

I’m just speaking biblical facts .
#mobility #joints #jesus #chicago #fitness #lifestyle #therapy #Holy spirit #brandnew
WillPowerFitnes

WillPowerFitnes

91 likes

A woman stands at a microphone, reading from a book, with text overlay "From SHAKING To SLAYING" and emojis, illustrating confidence in public speaking.
A woman stands in a restroom, looking at her phone, with text bubbles indicating her past public speaking fears: "Couldn't make eye contact," "Shaky hands + voice," and "Rushed through every sentence."
A woman reads a book to children, with text overlay "What helped me most" and tips like "Practicing OUT LOUD," "Watching good speakers," and "Recording myself."
How I overcame my fear of public speaking
I used to shake, stutter, and overthink everything before speaking in front of a group. My hands? Sweaty. My brain? Gone. But now? I actually enjoy public speaking — whether it’s in class, at work, or even hosting workshops 👀 So how did I get here?? ✅ Baby steps (like asking questions in c
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

41 likes

Learning Korean - Speaking Practice
There are definitely mistakes but it’s a learning process #learningKorean it should be 배우기
Candice

Candice

32 likes

Artists, keep speaking out! ✊
As our current 🇺🇸 administration attacks outspoken artists like Taylor Swift and Bruce Springsteen for telling the truth, we’re here to remind you that artists have always been outspoken even when they’ve been encouraged to remain silent about political and social justice issues. In the wise words
Gwen Levey

Gwen Levey

7 likes

Technically speaking their not wrong
Journi🩷✨

Journi🩷✨

0 likes

🌸 Shoulder —> almost waist-length hair in a year✨
My tips. I’m speaking this from the perspective of kinky, coily natural hair. I’ve been stuck at the same length almost my entire life and accidentally stumbled upon this journey. I just made peace with it long ago, not realizing what was fully possible. Also a lot of tips in here are there to
Des  ᡣ𐭩 •。ꪆৎ ˚⋅

Des ᡣ𐭩 •。ꪆৎ ˚⋅

1074 likes

A young woman with blonde hair smiles while looking at a laptop. The image has text overlayed that reads "how to build confidence with public speaking" and "lemon8 @alex.careerqueen."
A young woman looks at a laptop, with text overlays providing tips for public speaking: "Set a specific goal for yourself," "Don't be afraid to make mistakes," and "Prepare! prepare! prepare!" with further details.
A young woman looks forward, with text overlays offering public speaking advice: "Stop waiting for an invitation to speak!" with example phrases, and "Commit to speaking up early" to reduce anxiety.
how to be the public speaking QUEEN at work 👑
everything you need to know about how to confidently give presentations at work! it's best to set specific goals for yourself until you naturally feel comfortable speaking up here's where to start ➡️ #lemon8partner #careeradvice
Alex | Career & Confidence

Alex | Career & Confidence

26 likes

PERKS OF TRAVELING TO ISRAEL W/O SPEAKING HEBREW
Israelis generally have a decent grasp of English. Many signs are in English, Hebrew, and Arabic, and you can usually get by in Israel with English alone. But let me tell you, knowing a good amount of basic Hebrew can transform your trip to Israel in ways you might not expect. Recently, I spoke
Hebrew by Inbal

Hebrew by Inbal

8 likes

Vanilla $10 and Under Smell Goods
In a previous post I recommended vanilla products under 5 so now I’m going to give you some of the hottest vanilla products under $10. I think next I’ll do the higher end with $11-20 vanilla products. When I refer to vanilla I’m speaking of chocolate, caramel and coconut. Gourmand sweet scented pro
LacucinaSheena

LacucinaSheena

684 likes

The 3DS of my dreams 💗🥹
When I was 14 I was looking at this exact model of the 3DS XL wishing it was mine, and I’m so happy I was finally able to afford it 🥺 I got it second hand from eBay, and technically it is the Japanese version as it’s called the 3DS LL (not XL!), which is only an issue if you’re located outside o
My ☁️

My ☁️

2220 likes

speaking with class tips 🖤👑
I really do feel there's an art to speaking with class. I believe It's about the spaces between words, the respect in questions, and the humility in sharing— When it comes to questions, I've found that the best ones are born out of genuine curiosity, not intrusion. I keep que
juliadorsey

juliadorsey

182 likes

Technically Its not his bday yet but HBD!!
Hbd 🫶🫶 #BTS #Jhope
🍋🩰lemon🩰🍋

🍋🩰lemon🩰🍋

74 likes

how to master public speaking at work
Public speaking is NOT easy. But this is an area where truly practice makes perfect. You may not be the best right away, but everytime you practice, you will get better. In this post, I give 4 tips on you can improve your public speaking skills in a work setting: make sure to remove filler
dhillon.diary

dhillon.diary

11 likes

A woman in a white t-shirt with a doctor emoji, jeans, and a white cap stands outdoors. The image features the text 'PUBLIC SPEAKING AS A DOCTOR', highlighting the topic of developing public speaking skills for medical professionals.
A woman in medical scrubs and a dark cardigan takes a mirror selfie, with an ID badge visible. The text overlay reads 'VITAL SKILL!! ENHANCES PATIENT CARE BUILDS PROFESSIONAL REPUTATION', emphasizing the importance of public speaking in medicine.
A woman's reflection in a car window shows her taking a selfie. The image includes the text 'PREPARE AHEAD OF TIME BE CONFIDENT ANTICIPATE QUESTIONS SEEK FEEDBACK', offering practical advice for improving public speaking skills in a medical context.
Developing Public Speaking skills in Residency
Public speaking is a vital skill in medicine, from presenting cases on rounds to speaking at conferences and leading teams. Strong communication enhances patient care, builds your professional reputation, and is essential for future leadership roles. To build these skills, start with smaller goa
Dr.Khatch

Dr.Khatch

15 likes

Speaking up for yourself 🖤
You feel a knot in your stomach every time your friend's name lights up your phone screen. She launches into her latest drama, oblivious that she hasn't genuinely asked about your well-being in weeks. You've been grappling with personal challenges, silently stewing while responding to h
S H A Y ᥫ᭡

S H A Y ᥫ᭡

4 likes

BTS Kim Tae-hyung speaking French
#taehyung #kimtaehyung #bangtan
KPOP_LOVER

KPOP_LOVER

22 likes

Techically speaking.....✨️
I had to show up to work while the LA fires are active ...the mall is a ghost town .... I had to do something to keep busy
Joanne Zúñiga

Joanne Zúñiga

0 likes

A smiling woman in sunglasses sits at an outdoor table with flowers and a glass of water. Text overlay says 'say this to natives of your target language when you start speaking' and 'HOLA', offering advice for language learners.
A woman in a white halter top and patterned skirt stands on steps, holding a coffee cup. Text overlay suggests saying, 'I've been learning [x language] for X months, thank you for your patience!'
A woman with braided hair sits at an outdoor metal table, looking right, with a floral backdrop. Text overlay advises saying, 'I would like to practice everything I've learned - tell me what you think!'
Don’t be shy when speaking to natives!
I know it can be super intimidating to finally speak the language you have been learning – what if you sound silly or completely freeze up and embarrass yourself?? Oh well. That’s what learning is all about! If you really feel nervous, you can just inform the native that you’re still learning to br
Anaïs D’Ottavio

Anaïs D’Ottavio

40 likes

Day 18/60 Day of CFO: Accrued Expenses
Learn about Accrued Expenses This is my favorite question to ask in an interview Because there is so much to unpack ➡️ What is an Accrued Expense? Technically speaking, an accrued expense is when an expense has been incurred, but not yet paid This is especially relevant in accrual ac
ExpressoSolut

ExpressoSolut

5 likes

the best booktok series📖🌟
when i rediscovered my love for reading back in july (thanks to booktok and booktube🥰) i got a lot of recommendations of different books and series to read and these are all my favorites and would totally recommend to anyone that is either just starting their reading journey or just want something d
ally 📖💫

ally 📖💫

3689 likes

The Sisters
The Sisters The Center of the Web, Outside of Mortal Time The thread between the Kur and the Web’s center pulsed with silver light as Ereshkigal stepped through for the first time. She emerged into a space that was both everywhere and nowhere, a chamber that existed between all realms, woven
Myria

Myria

0 likes

Technically a best seller?! 📚
#📚books #lemon8bookclub #booktok #booktokfyp #booksoflemon8
andralarkin 📚✍🏼

andralarkin 📚✍🏼

10 likes

Can men and women JUST be the BEST OF friends when in a relationship? I personally think, if a man is attracted to the woman, he would “go” if he had the chance… now OBVIOUSLY there are exceptions… but I’m speaking to the majority But y’all let us know what its giving in the comments 👉🏽 #its
It’s Giving

It’s Giving

1 like

Kimora Lee Simmons, with long dark curly hair and a brown leather jacket, smiles next to Russell Simmons, who wears a navy sweater, plaid shirt, and baseball cap.
Kimora Lee Simmons, with long straight dark hair and a black strapless dress, stands next to Djimon Hounsou, who wears a dark suit and a light blue patterned tie.
Kimora Lee Simmons, with long dark wavy hair and a sparkling silver gown, smiles next to Tim Leissner, who wears a black suit with a red pocket square.
Kimora Lee isn’t on speaking terms w/ her exes.
Kimora Lee came out and said she is not on speaking terms with either of her exes. She has 2 daughters with Russell Simmons whom she was married to for 11 years. Ex Boyfriend Djimon Hounsou whom she shares son Kenzo. She also has a son named Wolfe with investment banker Tim Leissner. They technical
Love Toni

Love Toni

4 likes

Speaking to others!
Bible study!!! Prayer: God help us use the gift of speaking that you have us for good. Amen.
🩵Maddie🩵

🩵Maddie🩵

8 likes

Technically you don’t have weak knees 😂

Technically you don’t have weak knees 😂 #stretchpad #physicaltherapy #physiotherapy #fisioterapia #comedy #humor #medical #fitness #healthcare
Stretch_pad

Stretch_pad

42 likes

Speaking Daily Affirmations
#embracevulnerability Vulnerability 🤍 My Story: aspiring to make impact through entrepreneurship 🤍 How I Felt: like a hopeless novice, negative, unheard 🤍 My Takeaways: first hear to be heard. writing helps with reflecting and keeping focus on the path
RawLoveRareSoul

RawLoveRareSoul

4 likes

An iPad displaying a home screen with custom widgets and app icons, including a digital planner shortcut. Text overlay reads: 'turn your digital planner into an app 🤯'. A laptop and Apple Pencil are also on the desk.
An iPad screen showing a 'Shortcut Library' with various planner cover thumbnails. Text overlay instructs to 'choose the shortcut icon you want to use', pointing to example icons.
An iPad screen within the Shortcuts app, displaying a list of Goodnotes files. Text overlays guide the user to 'navigate to the shortcut app', 'search Goodnotes', and 'select the info button & click "add to home screen"'.
Turn your digital planner into an app?! 🤯
There are so many files that I actively use in Goodnotes, so creating these shortcuts makes it so easy to access them from my home screen! Even though it isn’t technically an ‘app’ it still looks & acts as if it were! How to create a shortcut for your digital planner: 1 ) Choose the short
Allie Marie 🧚🏻

Allie Marie 🧚🏻

342 likes

Technically she right LOL 😂
When Tyga & Rob Kardashian responded to Blac Chyna via Instagram comments after she publicly claimed she wasn’t receiving any child support 😅 #blackchyna #tyga #robkardashian #childsupport #fathers
Stayrealbaddies

Stayrealbaddies

274 likes

speaking english + korean
Being bilingual in Korean and English has been such a useful skill and expanded my world! But learning another language isn’t easy, but two things really helped me: 1. Immersion: listening to music, watching shows, and thinking in the language. 2. Consistent practice: even when I felt stuc
BETHANY

BETHANY

2 likes

Speaking It into existence 🫶
YouTube link in bio ✨ #youtubersforselfgrowth #beginneryoutuber #blackgirlslemon8 #sub4sub
Diamond Nicole

Diamond Nicole

38 likes

Korean Speaking -
Quick Korean Speaking Practice. Are you able to understand me? Is the sun shining where you are? ☀️ #koreanlanguagelearning #koreanlearning #studyingkorean
Shawna Monet

Shawna Monet

8 likes

Speaking it into existence‼️😊
✨It’z Kookiie 2 uu…. #unapologeticallyyourself #prettywoman #baddiehairstyles #nailinspo #rawwkookiie The Club at ATL
Qveen Raww Kookiie

Qveen Raww Kookiie

15 likes

A tablet screen displays the Paramount+ logo with Spongebob Squarepants and other characters, featuring text 'Low stimulating shows on PARAMOUNT + For little ones SWIPE' and a swipe arrow, introducing a list of calming children's programs.
A tablet screen shows Oswald, a blue octopus, and his dog Weenie, with text describing them as a safety-conscious duo who love to explore and help their friends. Episode details for Season 1 are visible.
A tablet screen features Little Bear sitting in a field, with text stating the show is based on books and highlights the characters' imaginative play. Season 1 episode information is also shown.
Paramount + low stimulating shows for little ones!
So many of us are realizing how over stimulating technology can be to our little ones! I wanted to share some of the low stimulating shows I let my littles watch on rainy day, sick days, or just during a time where they can watch tv! 📺 Oswald: I loved this show growing up and my boys love it no
Mariana • sahm

Mariana • sahm

673 likes

i lied about my age to buy a house
Here’s the 411 on what i learned about buying a home in my 20’s. 📌 • They will treat you differently because of your age. If you’re a “young buyer” they don’t take you seriously. So I lied. 🤷🏽‍♀️ More on this later. • They will try to cut corners everywhere! Ask for proof of whatever they’re
natalie *ೃ༄

natalie *ೃ༄

1841 likes

See more