Hey everyone, welcome back! Today, I'm doing a classic GRWM, but with a super heavy heart, because I'm diving into a Reddit story that just absolutely broke me. You know those stories that make you question everything? Well, this is one of them. Imagine finding out your husband cheated on you while you were pregnant... and then, years later, when you finally decide to leave, your own daughters, now 14 and 16, turn against you. My heart goes out to this woman. The original poster, let's call her 'OP,' found out about the affair only three months ago, even though it happened when her girls were babies. She talks about how they were a happy family until then, and her husband was a great dad. This is where it gets so incredibly complicated, isn't it? The girls know about the divorce and that their dad had an affair with two different women, but they don't know all the painful details. And honestly, they just don't want the change. They've even threatened to never see her again if she goes through with the divorce. Can you even imagine that level of emotional blackmail? OP completely understands their fear of uncertainty, but she just can't be with him anymore. She literally can't look at him without feeling sick. She mentioned therapy isn't working, and honestly, nothing seems to be helping with the pain of betrayal. What strikes me is the girls' reasoning: 'it happened so long ago, so it shouldn't really matter to me anymore.' That's such a tough pill to swallow for someone who's been betrayed. The situation with living arrangements is just as heartbreaking. It's already been two months since OP last saw her daughters properly. They're living every other week, with the parent whose week it isn't staying in a small studio apartment. But here's the twist: the girls refuse to stay at the main house with their mom during her week. Instead, they choose to spend their time with their dad in that cramped studio apartment. A therapist even advised against changing this arrangement, which is wild to me. It sounds like a desperate plea for connection with their dad, even at their mom's expense. OP mentioned they bought their house in 2003, and it's quadrupled in value, so they'll be able to get two decent homes. It's not about the money or living in bad conditions, but the emotional cost. She said before this, the girls loved both parents equally, but now, honestly, 'they only love him.' That line just hit me hard. Last week, the girls made it clear: if she divorced their dad, they would never talk to her again. And when she told them she wouldn't go back, they said she made her choice and they would never see her again. It's such a difficult situation, and it makes you wonder about the long-term impact on everyone. How do you navigate a divorce when your children are effectively taking sides? What would you do in this situation? I'd love to hear your thoughts and any advice you might have for someone going through this. Let's talk about it in the comments below. Stay strong, everyone!