Whoever said “you only have 18 summers to spend with your kids” can f right off 😭😭😭 #motherhood #momof3 #backtoschoolcheck
As a mother of three, I can completely relate to the mixed emotions surrounding the school year starting again. Although the saying goes that you only have 18 summers with your kids, in reality, the bond and time with children extend far beyond that. This notion can feel restrictive and doesn’t fully capture the ups and downs of parenting. From my experience, summers are special, but so are the ordinary everyday moments that happen throughout the year. While the back-to-school period can feel like a relief—especially after the long, unpredictable days of summer—it’s also a reminder of how quickly the little ones grow up. Many parents I've talked to mention feeling a bittersweet mix of excitement and melancholy when kids head off to school. On one hand, there’s more personal time and routines get back on track, but on the other, the house feels quieter and the opportunity to create summer memories is paused. I always try to seize every chance to make meaningful memories, whether it’s a family outing, a spontaneous adventure, or simply enjoying moments together at home. Motherhood isn’t just about marking time but cherishing all the seasons and changes it brings. So, while the phrase about 18 summers might resonate for some, I believe that the joy and connection with children doesn’t end when summer does. Every day offers new ways to connect, learn, and grow together as a family.