From someone who once wanted to "disappear."..To those who are carrying fatigue alone 🖤

Has anyone ever experienced a situation where someone says "don't want to live" or "wants to disappear from this world" or someone close to them tries to hurt themselves, but is it lucky to help you?

How did you feel then?

First of all, I want you to know that when a person decides to do something like that, he is not just upset or interested, as many people like to say.

But he was "tired" to the point of not actually seeing the solution of life.

Some have borne the pressure for a long time, some have been repeatedly hurt, some have been trying to be strong, until one day the heart is no longer able.

And yes, I was one of the people who tried to do that.

Both have tried to hurt themselves and have been in situations that have to help people who are going to do that many times

The most painful thing is sometimes not the suffering he experiences, but the words of those around him.

"If you really want to do it."

"Don't post. Don't tell anyone."

"Will take the medicine - then eat it"

"There are knives. Why not do it?"

You know... these words are very dangerous.

Pressure words or irony from those around him didn't help him "think," but it was to really push him down a cliff.

A man who is thinking short, he is not strong enough to hurt anyone, but instead dares to hurt himself!

Not because he was so weak that he was worthless... but because he was so hurt that he didn't know how to ask for help.

Many people dare not reject people.

Do not bother anyone, do not say that you are broken!

Until the end, be quiet and slowly destroy yourself alone.

The scariest thing is to be judged in the dark.

Because sometimes only one insulting statement

It may become a driving force for him to dare to repeat, and next time... there may be no more chance to help.

If you don't know how to help, at least "don't aggravate."

Don't insult the feeling.

Don't judge who is strong or weak from just the angle we see.

Because we never know

Than one person could smile each day.

What does he have to fight with in his heart?

Some people don't want teachings.

I don't need a solution.

He just needs someone to listen.

Without judging him.

And maybe...

That someone still "chooses to understand."

Probably enough to really hold back one person's life.

The world is not kind to us, but we can be kind to our friends.

"If you can't smile today...It's okay.

Just having breath is very good.

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