Happy birthday Vance!
Happy happy birthday to my first born! Vance earl burrup you made me a mom 15 years ago today, not a day goes by that I don’t think about you! I wonder what you would be like, would you be ready to start driving, would you be dating, would you be taller than me? So many questions every single day! I had in my head this year that you would be 16 but 15 make me feel a little less old! 😂 I love you so much and miss you even more! Fly high my sweet perfect boy! Happy 15th birthday in heaven with your siblings and your father! 🖤🖤🖤
As we celebrate special occasions like birthdays, it's important to remember those we've lost and the profound impact they had on our lives. Grieving a child is a journey filled with love and heartache. Many parents find comfort in sharing memories and stories, helping to keep the spirit of their loved ones alive. It’s common to wonder what life would have been like, contemplating milestones and experiences they would have celebrated. Engaging in acts of remembrance, such as creating a memorial, lighting a candle, or simply sharing stories with family, can provide solace. In moments of reflection, we validate our feelings and connect with others who share similar experiences. 15 years ago, I became a mom, a title I hold dear and cherish every day. Even as we celebrate Vance’s memory, we can also honor our own journeys of love, loss, and resilience. Let each birthday serve not just as a reminder of the absence but as a celebration of the beautiful moments we shared.
