I love you more?
Sometimes in my relationship, I catch myself wondering if I’m the one who loves more. It’s not that my partner doesn’t show they care… they do, in their own way. But there are moments where I feel like I’m the one who reaches out first, gives a little more, or holds on a little tighter. I always text my husband in the middle of the day to ask him how he’s doing, I wake up early to prepare his food, I run up to him when he comes home to give him the biggest hug. I don’t expect him to do the same back to me but a little something would be nice lol
I know not everyone shows affection the same way, and just because it doesn’t always look how I expect it to, doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Still, that voice in my head creeps in sometimes, the one that wants reassurance.
At the end of the day, I know love isn’t always about keeping score. It’s about being honest and showing up. And as much as I feel deeply, maybe that’s just who I am. Maybe the balance is there, just not in the way I first imagined.
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You both need to discuss it honestly if u feel that slightly you’ll start to resent him without knowing his true intentions. Hopefully he’s good and wants to show up for you more. I had to have a convo like that and it’s hard but with practice you can just find your way of telling him “hey here’s what u could do later that I like”