the last time i cried it was UGLY 😭

The last time I cried, I was completely burnt out from work. The ten days in a row, the summer heat, and the never ending workload finally caught up with me. I felt drained in every possible way, and it reached a point where all I could do was let the exhaustion out through tears.

My schedule always so inconsistent working night one day and then waking up early the next. It feels like I never get good rest. Some days I’m left to handle everything with little to no help, and the weight of that responsibility becomes suffocating.

That day, after clocking out, I got into my car and broke down. I sobbed until I had no strength left, and even as I drove home, the tears wouldn’t stop. It hit me in that moment that I’m simply not happy at my job anymore. What once felt manageable now feels heavy, and it’s not the same place it used to be for me.

Now, I’ve made peace with only giving what’s required. I no longer go above and beyond because I’ve learned that, in the end, the company wouldn’t do the same for me. Protecting my energy has become more important than proving myself in a place where recognition feels scarce.

I’ve accepted that my worth isn’t measured by how much extra I give to a job that doesn’t value it. So now I focus on balance doing my part but saving the best of me for the areas of life that matter most.

#burnoutsymptoms #burnoutadvice #GirlTalk #embracevulnerability #unfiltered

2025/8/20 Edited to

... Read moreBurnout is an increasingly common experience in today’s high-pressure work environments, marked by chronic stress, emotional exhaustion, and a sense of reduced accomplishment. The experience of crying after enduring relentless workload, poor rest due to inconsistent schedules, and feeling overwhelmed resonates with many facing similar challenges. Recognizing burnout symptoms such as fatigue, irritability, and diminished job satisfaction is the first crucial step toward recovery. Emotional release—like crying—can serve as a natural coping mechanism signifying the need for change. Setting clear boundaries at work, refraining from excessive overtime, and prioritizing personal wellbeing can prevent further emotional and physical depletion. Research shows that employees who protect their energy and avoid burnout by managing workload and seeking support report higher job satisfaction and better mental health. Accepting that your worth isn’t tied to overextending yourself is key to maintaining long-term productivity and happiness. Moreover, embracing vulnerability by openly discussing burnout symptoms fosters connection and reduces stigma. Platforms that promote unfiltered conversations encourage sharing advice and strategies for coping with work stress. Ultimately, balancing professional responsibilities with self-care and dedicating energy to meaningful life areas outside work improves overall wellbeing. If you find yourself exhausted and emotionally overwhelmed like the author, acknowledging burnout and taking intentional steps toward balance can transform your work experience and personal fulfillment.

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There you go. I used to do that too for my job. I went beyond and I came to my senses really quick that my energy that I put in is going to stop. I don't work anymore. I work for myself now. I am still building up. I'm so proud of you that you have noticed it for yourself. I'm sending you gentle virtual 🐻🐨 hugs 🤗

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