what a waste 😣
Sometimes it makes me sad when I look around at all the things I own and realize that every single one of them used to be money. I start thinking about how much I could have saved or what else I could’ve done with that money instead of just having it sit around as stuff.
A couple years ago, when I didn’t have any real bills or responsibilities, I was always buying things I didn’t actually need. I would spend without thinking twice, and over time it all added up. Now I look around and realize I’ve just collected so much stuff.
Back then, I would especially buy things whenever I was sad. Shopping gave me this temporary happiness, like a quick rush that made me feel better in the moment. But that feeling never lasted long, and I’d just end up wanting something else again.
Looking back now, I realize I was just filling a void with material things instead of dealing with what I was actually feeling. It’s taught me to be more mindful about my spending and to look for healthier ways to find joy and comfort in my life.
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Literally in the same boat. I have two bags of clothes I’m now giving away and thinking to myself, damn… I spent how much on these two bags? ðŸ˜