I missed a lot of my oldest daughter’s firsts.
For years I thought success meant being fully booked.
The more clients I took, the more successful I felt.
But eventually I realized I was trading time for money at a rate I could never sustain.
I missed moments I can never get back.
When I was pregnant with my second daughter, I decided to try something different.
Not because I wanted to quit doing hair.
Not because I hated my career.
But because I wanted more options.
That small decision ended up changing everything.
If you’re in a season where you feel stretched thin trying to build a life and make a living, I understand that feeling more than you know.
Sometimes the answer isn’t working harder.
Sometimes it’s creating another path.
#motherhoodjourney #workingmomlife #salonowner #lifebydesign #careerchange
Balancing a demanding career and motherhood is one of the biggest challenges many parents face, especially when your job requires long, exhausting hours—as I learned firsthand as a hairstylist. I worked 12 to 14-hour days, taking as many clients as possible because I believed that success meant being fully booked. Yet, that relentless schedule came at a cost: precious moments with my oldest daughter that I could never reclaim. When I became pregnant with my second daughter, I knew I needed a change. I craved not only to keep doing what I loved but also to have more choices in how I spent my time. During my maternity leave, I started building another income stream, initially without high expectations—just hoping to gain some breathing room. That decision transformed my life. By creating that alternative path, I was able to reduce the long hours behind the salon chair and regain time for my family. I still own and love my salon, but now, I define success differently. To me, freedom means having options—to earn income without sacrificing irreplaceable family moments. If you find yourself stretched thin between your job and family life, know that sometimes the answer isn't just working harder, but finding creative new ways to build your career. Whether that means leveraging skills in new ways or developing side projects, it can open doors to a more balanced and fulfilling life. Remember, investing in yourself and your family's quality time is the true measure of success.
